1 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:12,749 Moe Factz with Adam curry September 9 2019, episode number 2 00:00:12,749 --> 00:00:16,559 six. And it's been way too long Mr. Moe. 3 00:00:17,580 --> 00:00:19,800 Two weeks, man, it's been it's been killing me. 4 00:00:21,270 --> 00:00:23,760 That was that it's I got the kind of like withdrawal 5 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:24,480 symptoms. 6 00:00:25,350 --> 00:00:29,670 I know I was ready to do a show I couldn't. So I hope we do 7 00:00:29,940 --> 00:00:32,250 twice as well on this show to make up for it for the people. 8 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:32,730 Well, I 9 00:00:32,730 --> 00:00:36,150 was just looking at the, at the elements of the show you sent 10 00:00:36,150 --> 00:00:39,720 over you got quite a number of clips here so I can I already 11 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:42,870 have some ideas as to what we'll be talking about today. I'm very 12 00:00:42,870 --> 00:00:43,830 perceptive that way. 13 00:00:44,430 --> 00:00:48,990 Yes. titling the clips gave it away. A little bit a little bit. 14 00:00:48,990 --> 00:00:53,730 Little bit. Yeah, um, first of all, I want to say Happy 55th 15 00:00:53,730 --> 00:00:57,000 Birthday to you. Thank you, sir. Yeah, thank 16 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:58,260 you, sir. Double nickels. 17 00:00:59,010 --> 00:01:01,920 And just to let you know, I celebrated my 12th wedding 18 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:03,210 anniversary yesterday. 19 00:01:03,390 --> 00:01:05,190 Oh, God bless you. Fantastic. 20 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:09,570 Thank you. Thank you. So I guess we're both have on how little 21 00:01:09,570 --> 00:01:11,580 hangover from my house to celebrations. 22 00:01:11,610 --> 00:01:17,340 Yeah, I have a hangover from your celebration. Exactly. All 23 00:01:17,340 --> 00:01:20,070 right. I can't wait to hear we're going to do today. 24 00:01:21,180 --> 00:01:23,910 All right. So just to catch you up. I don't know if you're great 25 00:01:23,910 --> 00:01:30,360 Twitter line caught you up with Jay Z. And the latest on his own 26 00:01:30,420 --> 00:01:35,100 happenings, just to fill the people in. And I know you're 27 00:01:35,100 --> 00:01:40,410 aware that he signed a deal with the NFL. Yep. And that wasn't 28 00:01:41,190 --> 00:01:43,860 well received by all in the black community, 29 00:01:43,919 --> 00:01:47,879 particularly because he apparently the impression was he 30 00:01:47,879 --> 00:01:51,239 left Kaepernick out of the deal. That was one thread that people 31 00:01:51,239 --> 00:01:53,579 were unhappy with? Yes. 32 00:01:54,030 --> 00:01:56,820 So they say he sold out Colin Kaepernick. That's how it's 33 00:01:56,820 --> 00:02:01,890 perceived. And it's about a 5050 split. Half the people saying 34 00:02:01,890 --> 00:02:06,930 it's good that he got to see the table in the NFL. And but the 35 00:02:06,930 --> 00:02:11,520 other half are like Oh, Jay Z, you appropriated his us his 36 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:15,570 movement. It because even Jay Z had taken a knee and one of his 37 00:02:15,570 --> 00:02:20,580 videos and Kaepernick Jersey, and then you go on to sign a 38 00:02:20,580 --> 00:02:25,890 deal with the NFL so Right, right, right. What this has done 39 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:35,640 is made Jay Z a target of the black woke community wound so he 40 00:02:35,640 --> 00:02:38,100 is up for a possible cancellation. 41 00:02:38,310 --> 00:02:44,640 Well, how is the black woke community woker than the White 42 00:02:44,640 --> 00:02:45,600 woke community? 43 00:02:46,650 --> 00:02:51,780 Well, they are. I think they're allies. Okay, so in certain ways 44 00:02:51,780 --> 00:02:58,020 you have the Liberals have black lives matter, they run in with 45 00:02:58,020 --> 00:03:01,890 the intersectionality. Right crowds, so they share they share 46 00:03:01,890 --> 00:03:09,420 common commonalities. And so like, like I stated before, he's 47 00:03:09,450 --> 00:03:12,870 up for cancellation. And so they've been doing some digging 48 00:03:12,870 --> 00:03:18,420 on his past clips. Oh, no. Foul, something's on Jay Z and single 49 00:03:18,420 --> 00:03:19,080 parents. 50 00:03:26,370 --> 00:03:30,270 You think about the idea of growing up in a single parent 51 00:03:30,270 --> 00:03:36,360 house, which I grew up in which we grew up in. At first dealing 52 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:40,500 for authority, right? father's gone. So you might hate my dad? 53 00:03:40,590 --> 00:03:42,840 Well, nobody tell me what to do. I'm the man in the house, that 54 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,570 you hit the street and you run into a police officer. And it's 55 00:03:45,570 --> 00:03:49,530 first phase, put your hands up, shut up, and you like, excuse my 56 00:03:49,530 --> 00:03:53,340 language, nobody likes you. Right. So that and that it's 57 00:03:53,340 --> 00:03:57,660 actually causes people to lose lives. And we don't want people 58 00:03:57,660 --> 00:04:03,510 that charge the police areas to be in danger, either. We want to 59 00:04:03,510 --> 00:04:06,750 be very clear, you know, someone commits a crime, they should go 60 00:04:06,750 --> 00:04:10,470 to jail. But these things are just disproportionate Christmas, 61 00:04:10,470 --> 00:04:15,330 no disrespect. I don't want anyone that feels defensive. But 62 00:04:15,330 --> 00:04:18,000 what I'm saying I'm just saying is true. And the people that are 63 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,790 here today, and the politicians that are here today knows the 64 00:04:20,790 --> 00:04:24,480 truth, that's why they're here. And it's a humane issue. Right. 65 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:25,890 So if we 66 00:04:26,730 --> 00:04:32,580 Okay, all right, so this was said on a panel with believe, 67 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:37,680 owner Robert Kraft from the NFL and he was speaking out. This is 68 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:41,940 back in January, actually, this is before he signed NFL deal. 69 00:04:42,450 --> 00:04:45,900 And nobody really said anything about this, but once he signed 70 00:04:45,900 --> 00:04:50,160 the NFL deal, then it became very relevant Of course, as you 71 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:54,480 know, with the cancellation crowd canceled culture. They 72 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:59,970 start to dig up past clips statements, and then they try 73 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:06,750 You weaponize it against you. This is what happened. So let me 74 00:05:06,750 --> 00:05:09,660 tell you how this is received from the woke crowd. And this is 75 00:05:09,660 --> 00:05:12,360 kind of for the no agenda listeners. This is kind of 76 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:17,340 dimension a dimension B kind of thing. Okay. So let's say 77 00:05:17,340 --> 00:05:24,630 dimension woke. Dimension, Walt heard this as Jay Z justified 78 00:05:24,870 --> 00:05:30,630 police shooting young black men, because they had they raised by 79 00:05:30,630 --> 00:05:31,470 single mothers. 80 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:35,670 Yeah. Okay, I can see how they come up with that, of course, 81 00:05:35,670 --> 00:05:38,760 it's the people see this movie with different eyes from 82 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:39,930 different dimensions. 83 00:05:40,380 --> 00:05:44,700 Correct. And then you have an other side. And just to let 84 00:05:44,700 --> 00:05:48,030 everybody know, in my position, I'm a straggler, because I can 85 00:05:48,030 --> 00:05:51,030 understand both sides of it. And that's what gives me a unique 86 00:05:51,030 --> 00:05:56,730 perspective. On the other side of is the more conservative 87 00:05:56,730 --> 00:06:00,060 black crowd. And they say of course, yes, we heard this in 88 00:06:00,060 --> 00:06:04,740 our previous what two shows ago with the Prager, Prager, you 89 00:06:04,740 --> 00:06:10,860 Yep. Yes, that they're all about single parenting leads to 90 00:06:13,980 --> 00:06:17,940 violence and you know, disarray and these kinds of things. And 91 00:06:17,940 --> 00:06:20,550 it's like a one to one correlation, which is also 92 00:06:20,550 --> 00:06:27,810 incorrect. So this is where I come in. But what he said is 93 00:06:27,840 --> 00:06:31,530 somewhat correct, because when you don't have authority in the 94 00:06:31,530 --> 00:06:34,470 household, and this is where this whole show is gonna go. And 95 00:06:34,500 --> 00:06:37,740 we're gonna do some background and to how houses became a 96 00:06:37,740 --> 00:06:39,960 single parent, because we touched on the topic, but we 97 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:45,090 never really got in depth on the subject. But before we get into 98 00:06:45,090 --> 00:06:49,020 it, I want to go back to one the clips I played before talking 99 00:06:49,020 --> 00:06:55,800 about the two dark patterns are two schools of thought driven by 100 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:57,780 think tanks. And that's trick baby. 101 00:06:58,590 --> 00:07:00,900 As you liberals who have lifted them up power, 102 00:07:01,110 --> 00:07:05,280 poor, you conservatives make a mistake. You can't afford to 103 00:07:05,280 --> 00:07:09,270 strangle hope and people without hope. People will come 104 00:07:09,270 --> 00:07:09,720 dangerous. 105 00:07:09,990 --> 00:07:13,770 No, how're you liberals have let them invade our society. You 106 00:07:13,770 --> 00:07:15,930 give them jobs, political job. 107 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:19,500 Oh, you missed the point. Suddenly, the smart ones we move 108 00:07:19,500 --> 00:07:23,970 up? That makes it even worse? No, no, we have to move them up. 109 00:07:24,330 --> 00:07:27,150 If we leave a smart one in the ghetto, he might develop into a 110 00:07:27,150 --> 00:07:31,260 leader against us. But if we raise him up into white society, 111 00:07:31,530 --> 00:07:35,790 we neutralize it. He feels compelled to try black like us. 112 00:07:36,510 --> 00:07:41,820 He loses his identity and his racial anger. If he has the he 113 00:07:41,820 --> 00:07:46,200 becomes alien do his brothers. They realize he sold them out 114 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:50,130 and they grow to hate him. He becomes worthless to them and 115 00:07:50,130 --> 00:07:54,450 say for us. No thank you. In fact, in his love for the 116 00:07:54,450 --> 00:07:59,280 creature comforts except for its color. He's become one of us. 117 00:07:59,909 --> 00:08:03,359 Oh, lovely dinner, Mortimer. Always a good time chatting 118 00:08:03,359 --> 00:08:04,589 about the black man. 119 00:08:05,700 --> 00:08:13,440 Right. So I played this clip. So you can hear we're Jay Z is big, 120 00:08:13,470 --> 00:08:17,880 where people are saying Jay Z is Ed that he's been let into the 121 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:24,630 club. And now he's been neutralized. And he's been. I've 122 00:08:24,630 --> 00:08:26,820 said this before, and I don't know if I said it here on this 123 00:08:26,820 --> 00:08:30,960 show. But I've said it in my podcast. This is Jay Z taking 124 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:36,090 this deal with the NFL. Is his Bill Cosby poundcake pull up 125 00:08:36,090 --> 00:08:40,560 your parents moment. Hey, yeah. For people who don't remember 126 00:08:40,560 --> 00:08:44,310 that God's speech given by Bill Cosby. He was like, yeah, they 127 00:08:44,310 --> 00:08:47,520 kill each other that for some pancake or something like that. 128 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:51,570 He was talking really down to the black community. That's how 129 00:08:51,570 --> 00:08:55,140 it was perceived, but it had good messaging in it. But the 130 00:08:55,140 --> 00:08:59,280 tone and from where it was coming. It sounded very elitist. 131 00:08:59,580 --> 00:09:01,050 Yeah, okay, I'll just kind 132 00:09:01,050 --> 00:09:04,680 of fell apart a couple years ago, obviously, 133 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:08,820 right when he needed his community to back him and this 134 00:09:08,820 --> 00:09:11,640 is just this goes to, I think this is going to be in 135 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:13,710 compensated a lot of conversation that we had on 136 00:09:13,710 --> 00:09:17,730 previous clips. To be protected by the black community, you need 137 00:09:17,730 --> 00:09:21,240 to have an overwhelming majority. Just like with voting, 138 00:09:21,660 --> 00:09:25,560 you got to have about 80 90% of the black community behind you. 139 00:09:25,830 --> 00:09:29,670 Because that makes enough noise to where you can use it as a 140 00:09:29,670 --> 00:09:33,900 tool to protect you either right or wrong. We seen this with our 141 00:09:33,900 --> 00:09:36,750 Kelly. We saw this with other other people that it has 142 00:09:36,750 --> 00:09:43,230 transgressions, but they can drum up enough support that it 143 00:09:43,230 --> 00:09:46,680 makes them a hard target. But as soon as that support is 144 00:09:46,680 --> 00:09:53,730 fractured, then you become open game for anybody that wants to 145 00:09:53,730 --> 00:09:56,970 take you down. As Jay Z is being done now about the world 146 00:09:56,970 --> 00:10:01,350 community. I don't know what they're surprised about, um, 147 00:10:02,100 --> 00:10:05,340 with this clip that he said, Because he said these exact same 148 00:10:05,340 --> 00:10:09,120 things and songs as his, over the years, multiple times, but 149 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:14,310 now that you're a target of canceled culture, this is where 150 00:10:14,310 --> 00:10:20,280 we're at. But what I want to talk about more is the 151 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:25,230 conditions of a single parent home. And this show how we got 152 00:10:25,230 --> 00:10:28,050 there, how we really got there, like the step by step. And we 153 00:10:28,050 --> 00:10:32,160 talked about the no parent in the house, and no man, excuse 154 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:35,400 me, no man in the house and things of that nature, but we 155 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:40,500 never really dug down. And this is a huge problem in the black 156 00:10:40,500 --> 00:10:43,740 community. And I think it was even number one on the progress 157 00:10:43,740 --> 00:10:47,670 list. If I'm not mistaken, it was top three, at least. But 158 00:10:47,670 --> 00:10:51,300 let's get into. So this is a conspiracy to destroy black 159 00:10:51,300 --> 00:10:58,560 boys. Um, let me see how the, and this book that was written. 160 00:10:59,790 --> 00:11:03,960 This is something that my both my parents were educators, um, 161 00:11:04,470 --> 00:11:08,550 and this book floated around the house, because it was passed 162 00:11:08,550 --> 00:11:12,780 around, I think, between black teachers. And I'm gonna get the 163 00:11:12,780 --> 00:11:18,810 man's name. I had it in my notes, but boys, I'm doing this 164 00:11:18,810 --> 00:11:19,380 on the fly. 165 00:11:21,510 --> 00:11:27,330 I was actually already googling this job Kwanzaa can juphal 166 00:11:27,510 --> 00:11:28,080 kanji for 167 00:11:28,110 --> 00:11:32,880 SEO? Yes, yes. Correct. He wrote two books. There's two volumes 168 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:37,950 to this. And he basically goes, and this was back in 1985. 169 00:11:37,950 --> 00:11:41,250 Tonight, and this clips are from 1987. I think the book was 170 00:11:41,250 --> 00:11:42,660 written a couple of years beforehand. 171 00:11:43,110 --> 00:11:47,220 Yeah, it looks like 1983 when it first came out. Great. Yeah. So 172 00:11:47,370 --> 00:11:50,940 this is at the time when I'm a small boy. And I remember these 173 00:11:50,940 --> 00:11:54,000 conversations being had and my parents have used to have these 174 00:11:55,320 --> 00:12:00,060 conversations at the dinner table of just like, how we're 175 00:12:00,060 --> 00:12:03,300 being raised. And when we say I'm older, I'm the youngest. So 176 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:06,450 they have the conversation with my older siblings. And I 177 00:12:06,450 --> 00:12:09,120 remember the some of the sentiments that were shared in 178 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:12,480 this book. But let's get into our conspiracy to destroy black 179 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:13,230 boys. One, 180 00:12:13,470 --> 00:12:17,550 when the economy changed the family structure, there was more 181 00:12:17,550 --> 00:12:20,400 than love and these relationships, there was a money 182 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:24,090 about it. Our grandparents worked the fields together, had 183 00:12:24,090 --> 00:12:27,030 economic reasons to stay together. So they did in a 184 00:12:27,030 --> 00:12:31,260 factory man Wilson factory woman takes to church economic reason, 185 00:12:31,260 --> 00:12:33,990 again, it's played against, but in this new economy, well, you 186 00:12:33,990 --> 00:12:37,260 now have women working just as much if not more than men, you 187 00:12:37,260 --> 00:12:41,460 now hear women telling me, I don't need you got my old job, 188 00:12:41,550 --> 00:12:44,340 do what I want to do when I want to do it. And we're now doing it 189 00:12:44,340 --> 00:12:46,110 very well. And by ourselves. 190 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,000 Oh, man, that sounds familiar, doesn't it? 191 00:12:48,750 --> 00:12:53,670 Yes, it sounds sounds very familiar. And it's even been 192 00:12:53,670 --> 00:12:59,460 more telling in current times where we're at, I think, maybe a 193 00:12:59,460 --> 00:13:03,930 fourth iteration of he was talking about from the fields, 194 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:08,580 our culture's industrialization, to now the computers, acute 195 00:13:08,580 --> 00:13:12,000 periodization to now I think we're like, maybe at a 196 00:13:12,570 --> 00:13:17,310 automation. I think that may be the fourth. Yeah, what we're at 197 00:13:17,310 --> 00:13:21,750 now, and we're seeing even more because men don't need women in 198 00:13:21,750 --> 00:13:25,800 men don't mean women don't need men. At this time, because every 199 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:29,580 service that you need for the opposite sex, there's an app for 200 00:13:29,580 --> 00:13:29,940 it now. 201 00:13:31,650 --> 00:13:33,030 Almost everything, yes. 202 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:36,330 Right. I mean, you got door door, I mean, for guys cooking, 203 00:13:36,330 --> 00:13:40,350 cleaning, I mean, not the same thing, but that's what the 204 00:13:40,350 --> 00:13:43,200 critical thing is that you need to run a household you can get 205 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:47,760 those done by third party. And for women, you know, um, you 206 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:52,200 know, take you know, the, you see these handyman apps and, you 207 00:13:52,200 --> 00:14:00,210 know, was Angie's List and yeah, sure, so these things are he was 208 00:14:00,210 --> 00:14:03,660 saying into the future when he said this. I don't want to 209 00:14:03,660 --> 00:14:05,700 belabor the point. Let's get into clip two. 210 00:14:06,030 --> 00:14:08,760 Now we have a lot of people making plenty of money and 211 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:15,270 lonely place money before family. You see black men, where 212 00:14:15,270 --> 00:14:19,440 do you go white men do buy their family a house in the suburbs to 213 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:23,220 car and once a year go down to Orlando for disney world 214 00:14:23,220 --> 00:14:27,240 vacation. And when black men can't do that, they don't feel 215 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:28,050 they're worthy enough to 216 00:14:28,050 --> 00:14:36,000 stay right. And be as as a black man, this is true. We don't want 217 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:40,470 anything different than the average white man or any other 218 00:14:40,470 --> 00:14:44,310 man in America, you know, we want the house. The two cars 219 00:14:45,060 --> 00:14:47,190 Yeah, the vacation to Disney Of course. 220 00:14:47,250 --> 00:14:51,120 Right? But we you can't provide those things in this 221 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:56,400 capitalistic society. You feel worthless. And when you feel 222 00:14:56,400 --> 00:15:00,300 worthless, it's up to the woman to decide if you have any that 223 00:15:00,300 --> 00:15:02,340 you're not. So let's listen to clip three, 224 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:06,480 nicely. The problem is there are two responses black women can 225 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:10,200 get to black men went out of work. The first is my son woman 226 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,720 says, What if you didn't work and you gotta go? If you ain't 227 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:15,870 working, you got to go. That's the mistake. Because black men 228 00:15:15,870 --> 00:15:20,340 don't hire no fire. No control the means of production. Now, 229 00:15:20,370 --> 00:15:23,070 before Black mysteries say That's right, brother, you tell 230 00:15:23,070 --> 00:15:26,820 him, please brothers quit assuming that black women took 231 00:15:26,820 --> 00:15:30,270 our jobs away. Because black women awesome. Do not hire no 232 00:15:30,270 --> 00:15:33,570 fire. We are being played off against each other for some 233 00:15:33,570 --> 00:15:34,320 crumbs. 234 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:43,230 That's quite the allegation. So how did you receive it? Well, 235 00:15:43,230 --> 00:15:43,530 it's 236 00:15:45,570 --> 00:15:53,400 completely as if black men and women are helpless and do not 237 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:54,660 control their destiny. 238 00:15:58,650 --> 00:16:01,050 So this is how I received and that's why I like having this 239 00:16:01,050 --> 00:16:05,160 conversation session with you. Because as we seen, you can have 240 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,620 one statement received multiple different ways just by 241 00:16:07,650 --> 00:16:12,090 perspective, of course, I'll receive that as if you have to 242 00:16:12,090 --> 00:16:17,190 have a certain number of black people in office. Say, you know, 243 00:16:17,190 --> 00:16:21,360 we talked about affirmative action. This is at 10 13%. 244 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:29,370 Right? What I want, just speaking from how black people 245 00:16:29,370 --> 00:16:33,270 see it, I mean, we always conspiratorial because of the 246 00:16:33,270 --> 00:16:36,090 things that have been levied against us throughout the past. 247 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:42,720 So we have a conspiratorial vein in us. So if that 13% was 248 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:45,480 majority men had to be man, because women were in in the 249 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:48,450 workforce in the 50s 60s, you know, saying maybe even up to 250 00:16:48,450 --> 00:16:53,100 the early 70s, will you start seeing the same amount of black 251 00:16:53,100 --> 00:16:58,800 faces, but less men that's being perceived as the black woman are 252 00:16:58,800 --> 00:16:59,760 taking your jobs? 253 00:17:00,330 --> 00:17:04,980 Ah, okay, well, I can understand that I see how that perception 254 00:17:04,980 --> 00:17:07,860 would be there, then, who knows, some of it may be true, 255 00:17:07,860 --> 00:17:10,740 certainly back in the day when this was playing out. 256 00:17:12,180 --> 00:17:15,630 And there's a there's a underlying reason for that, 257 00:17:15,630 --> 00:17:19,980 because a black woman is a double minority. What I mean by 258 00:17:19,980 --> 00:17:23,340 that is, you kill two birds with one stone because you bring a 259 00:17:23,340 --> 00:17:26,280 black woman and you could check the box of a female, you get 260 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:30,210 extra points. And, and a black, black person. 261 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:32,520 And if she has a hump, I think there's a third, then you get an 262 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:32,880 extra. 263 00:17:35,490 --> 00:17:41,970 Now, this is, so now we see. It's not that, you know, the 264 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:46,470 elite are, you know, whoever's doing the hiring, or whatever 265 00:17:46,470 --> 00:17:51,900 are pro black women is just that we can mask ourselves in these 266 00:17:51,900 --> 00:17:56,730 double minorities, as we've seen with the NFL had been claimed, 267 00:17:56,850 --> 00:18:04,080 we can mask ourselves with a Jay Z. And, you know, dodge, the 268 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:08,130 fact that we're racist or whatever, whatever it is, if you 269 00:18:08,130 --> 00:18:09,600 want to be labeled as right, which 270 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:13,080 is which is what we kind of I certainly how I view this deal 271 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:16,980 with Jay Z is like, okay, just when there's a lot of heat on 272 00:18:18,330 --> 00:18:22,410 political supporters of Republicans, specifically Trump, 273 00:18:23,250 --> 00:18:27,930 we've had we've had big donors being called out we saw equinox 274 00:18:27,930 --> 00:18:33,240 and, and SoulCycle. We saw people getting really upset with 275 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:37,080 the owners because they supported Trump. And my feeling 276 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:39,720 has always been NFL is like, get let's get out ahead of that. And 277 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:42,000 let's bring in Jay Z called Jay Z. 278 00:18:42,780 --> 00:18:45,180 Right. And it's super 279 00:18:45,360 --> 00:18:49,680 cynical to think that but Jesus seems so true to him. So 280 00:18:49,710 --> 00:18:53,490 if you think that way with Jay Z, why wouldn't people think the 281 00:18:53,490 --> 00:18:56,010 same way? And we got to understand that climate we're 282 00:18:56,010 --> 00:18:59,220 talking in the early 1980s? Yes, of course, is not that far 283 00:18:59,220 --> 00:19:03,870 removed from when you had a workspace of mostly men? Yeah. 284 00:19:03,870 --> 00:19:08,220 All right. So we have to look at it in a in a proper time 285 00:19:08,220 --> 00:19:12,660 context. But let's go into conspiracies. 2.1, 286 00:19:12,750 --> 00:19:16,020 we can look at some mothers. And I said some not all, the rumor 287 00:19:16,020 --> 00:19:20,820 is that some mothers raise their daughters and love their sons, 288 00:19:20,850 --> 00:19:24,930 my boy always loved his mom. 40 years of age still at home with 289 00:19:24,930 --> 00:19:28,530 you that needs to stop you boys, not yours. He the future 290 00:19:28,530 --> 00:19:31,950 husband, a future father, and needs to be raised that way not 291 00:19:31,950 --> 00:19:35,490 known historical reason. The historical reason is our society 292 00:19:35,490 --> 00:19:39,390 has always tried to destroy black men dimensions. So black 293 00:19:39,390 --> 00:19:42,420 mothers always want to over protect their sons. What's the 294 00:19:42,420 --> 00:19:46,740 reason today? Is it because you own black man didn't stay? You 295 00:19:46,740 --> 00:19:51,000 now replaced your man with your son. Quick tell him his nine 296 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:54,300 year old boy. They demand a house. Ain't no nine year old 297 00:19:54,300 --> 00:19:57,630 boy ready to be no man. Uh huh. You know what sad though? These 298 00:19:57,630 --> 00:20:00,510 brothers think, but they can do with their mamas. they can do 299 00:20:00,510 --> 00:20:02,970 with a teacher, the coach and everybody else. 300 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:07,980 Oh, yeah. Now, let me just I have some experience with this. 301 00:20:08,820 --> 00:20:14,100 After years of therapy, it's called Emotional blackmail. And 302 00:20:14,100 --> 00:20:17,040 it's often not intentional, and it probably is never 303 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:21,210 intentional. Similar to me, where, oh, you're the man about 304 00:20:21,210 --> 00:20:24,480 the house now now you got to you got to take care of stuff and 305 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:29,130 take care of me. And it can, it can cause damage down the line. 306 00:20:30,750 --> 00:20:34,620 I think so. I think that's very true. So how we got from the 307 00:20:34,620 --> 00:20:38,940 first two clips is that first group of clips was to explain 308 00:20:38,940 --> 00:20:43,290 how the man was removed from the home. So now we're at the point 309 00:20:43,290 --> 00:20:48,420 where the man's on the house, we've gone over that multiple 310 00:20:48,420 --> 00:20:51,630 times before how how the mechanism was used. And we know 311 00:20:51,630 --> 00:20:58,830 this comes from governmental decisions to remove the man and 312 00:20:58,830 --> 00:21:03,840 we see how it trickles down. Now the woman has the male child 313 00:21:04,500 --> 00:21:11,130 standing in the gap for the man that has left the home. Right, 314 00:21:11,130 --> 00:21:15,450 and as you says, as you said that they start to put 315 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:20,190 responsibilities on that male child that shouldn't be there 316 00:21:20,250 --> 00:21:29,700 and that male child is also given. free rein are allow 317 00:21:29,730 --> 00:21:34,380 what's the word I'm looking for? He was given a abilities or 318 00:21:34,380 --> 00:21:38,220 allowances to do whatever he feels, there sees fit 319 00:21:38,340 --> 00:21:42,240 privileges. privileges, that's the word I'm looking at. Yeah. 320 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:46,800 So it goes back to Jay Z statement, when he encounters if 321 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:51,840 he's treated as a man or the authority figure at home. And 322 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:57,180 he's not made to be show any respect to authority figures. 323 00:21:58,290 --> 00:22:00,750 When he encounters that police officer, 324 00:22:02,010 --> 00:22:04,890 he's he's not gonna have air he's not prepared, he's gonna 325 00:22:04,890 --> 00:22:06,120 have the wrong reaction. 326 00:22:07,050 --> 00:22:10,560 He's not prepared for that situation. And that is where, 327 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:18,330 where we that's where we're at. So let's just listen to 3.2 328 00:22:18,420 --> 00:22:21,540 interesting with the fathers there. So you something about a 329 00:22:21,540 --> 00:22:26,700 black man or father seeing this male does his same size, sitting 330 00:22:26,700 --> 00:22:31,290 on his sofa? In the bar food boy, you gotta go see his dog as 331 00:22:31,590 --> 00:22:35,430 long as she wants to see the mother knows a daughter. So the 332 00:22:35,430 --> 00:22:38,910 mother, you gotta go to see mothers make the daughters go 333 00:22:39,030 --> 00:22:42,300 and violence make the sons go, but when the Father's not there, 334 00:22:42,360 --> 00:22:44,220 there's nobody makes us go. 335 00:22:45,420 --> 00:22:46,290 Yeah, right on. 336 00:22:47,670 --> 00:22:51,930 So this is where we're at. And if you notice, majority of the 337 00:22:51,930 --> 00:22:56,370 problems in the black community happened with the black male. 338 00:22:56,580 --> 00:23:02,310 Why is that because they don't have the the leadership, the 339 00:23:02,310 --> 00:23:06,690 role models. Now, we saw that in the theme two shows ago when 340 00:23:06,690 --> 00:23:09,210 that the black cop was in the community, and he said, You got 341 00:23:09,210 --> 00:23:16,950 to give the kids the tough love. Um, and that's what boys need. 342 00:23:17,550 --> 00:23:20,340 Your father keeps you in line. He lets you know Life is not 343 00:23:20,340 --> 00:23:26,730 fair. As one of my favorite lines of my dad. Life is our 344 00:23:26,730 --> 00:23:28,530 affairs where they judge pigs. 345 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:34,110 Yeah, so I gotta tell you, I am happy. You're, you're like 1718 346 00:23:34,110 --> 00:23:37,860 years younger than I am. I'm really happy to hear that 347 00:23:37,860 --> 00:23:41,130 because I grew up with life's not fair. Not my mom was the one 348 00:23:41,130 --> 00:23:45,270 who told me that my dad wasn't around much. I hope it's still 349 00:23:45,270 --> 00:23:49,350 being said, Because seems like with all the wokeness around us, 350 00:23:49,350 --> 00:23:52,020 this may not be something that is repeated the way it used to 351 00:23:52,020 --> 00:23:52,350 be. 352 00:23:54,090 --> 00:24:00,660 We're gonna see that it's not the game. The game. Always get 353 00:24:00,660 --> 00:24:03,690 ahead. Alright, so let's get into 3.1. And we're gonna it's 354 00:24:03,690 --> 00:24:05,220 gonna be a great segue. So my 355 00:24:05,220 --> 00:24:08,880 point is it blockboard Coming right to you. A black woman? No, 356 00:24:08,970 --> 00:24:12,630 we'll probably have the old black man. I'll be corrected 357 00:24:12,870 --> 00:24:15,990 with your son, saying, You know what the problems are the black 358 00:24:15,990 --> 00:24:20,130 men, your little son. That's somebody else's says. All what 359 00:24:20,130 --> 00:24:22,140 you know, needs to be done. Put that into 360 00:24:22,140 --> 00:24:29,520 his. Right. So if we've been a matriarchal society from maybe 361 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,910 let's see the late to mid the mid to late 70s. Let's just say 362 00:24:32,910 --> 00:24:35,880 that fair. That's when it became, you know, 50% or more 363 00:24:35,910 --> 00:24:43,260 majority. Why hasn't? Why haven't women create demand the 364 00:24:43,260 --> 00:24:48,690 men, their daughters will love to marry? I don't think it's a 365 00:24:48,690 --> 00:24:50,460 fair ask to start off with. 366 00:24:51,090 --> 00:24:56,370 I think there's I'm not sure that women can do that. I don't 367 00:24:56,370 --> 00:24:57,870 know if that's the way nature works. 368 00:24:57,870 --> 00:25:08,070 Even I think I agree with you. But if you say, Ah, okay, if you 369 00:25:08,070 --> 00:25:12,090 go back to Jay Z's statement, and what he said about single 370 00:25:12,090 --> 00:25:16,860 parent warming, you know, can't raise a man. We've said this 371 00:25:16,890 --> 00:25:21,810 multiple times before. This is the pushback that he got, what 372 00:25:21,810 --> 00:25:25,680 do you mean? What do you mean? Oh, a woman can't raise a man, 373 00:25:25,710 --> 00:25:28,740 you know? So there's this fallacy? 374 00:25:29,580 --> 00:25:32,760 Well, yeah, okay, I totally understand what you're saying 375 00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:36,630 that. And this is a part of woke culture, where we're all 376 00:25:36,630 --> 00:25:40,920 completely equal the same, there's no difference. Exactly. 377 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:44,100 And, and that is just emphatically not true. There's, 378 00:25:44,100 --> 00:25:49,770 there's no, I helped raise a daughter. But you know, if I was 379 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:53,160 only me, I would don't think I would succeed the way it would 380 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:56,730 work with two with a two parent household or maybe with just a 381 00:25:56,730 --> 00:26:00,060 mom, I don't know. But I it's yeah, the woke, the woke crowd 382 00:26:00,060 --> 00:26:03,300 will say, of course, you can do that. And I think nature might 383 00:26:03,300 --> 00:26:04,440 tell us something different. 384 00:26:05,490 --> 00:26:10,110 It tells us very loud and clear, but we ignore what it tells us. 385 00:26:10,500 --> 00:26:15,450 And we keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again. 386 00:26:15,450 --> 00:26:18,090 And what did they call that? That's called insanity. That's 387 00:26:18,090 --> 00:26:22,950 right, by definition. You make a great point, I grew up in a 388 00:26:22,950 --> 00:26:26,430 house with two other brothers, my father and my mother, no 389 00:26:26,430 --> 00:26:32,250 sisters. So now having three daughters I'm lost. Right? And 390 00:26:32,250 --> 00:26:35,400 if it was just if it was just me, and we need to start having 391 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,250 this conversation and always blame the women blame the men, 392 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:43,890 no men and women have roles and responsibilities. And they're, 393 00:26:44,130 --> 00:26:49,260 they're exclusive to either sex. When it comes my daughter's I am 394 00:26:49,260 --> 00:26:53,370 completely lost. Completely. I'm 395 00:26:53,370 --> 00:26:56,700 sure you're not completely lost. But I feel Yeah. 396 00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:02,460 Trust me. It's like, I need an interpreter for my wife to like, 397 00:27:02,790 --> 00:27:07,590 what does that mean? Like my little, little anecdote, you 398 00:27:07,590 --> 00:27:11,190 know, but my oldest daughter, which is she'll be 16. October 399 00:27:11,190 --> 00:27:15,540 can come walking in. And my wife can read from her mood, what's 400 00:27:15,540 --> 00:27:20,370 going on? I didn't see her walking across the room. I hear 401 00:27:20,370 --> 00:27:24,150 you. My wife was saying something's wrong. That's 402 00:27:25,139 --> 00:27:29,189 that secret female code has nothing to do with age. I agree. 403 00:27:29,370 --> 00:27:32,760 That goes to show you I have a deficiency, but I accept that 404 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:37,680 deficiency. And I have to defer. So my wife the same way with 405 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:41,760 young boys. You can't tell them everything is going to be all 406 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:45,390 right. And life is fair. Everybody gets trophies. You 407 00:27:45,390 --> 00:27:49,200 know, we've seen this with the trophy culture. No, life has 408 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:54,900 winners. It has losers. But you do have a win. If you gave it 409 00:27:54,900 --> 00:27:58,350 your all. And losers can win. Yeah, of course. Right and lose 410 00:27:58,350 --> 00:28:03,810 it. So there's nuance there. But now we fast forward. Madame 411 00:28:03,810 --> 00:28:08,700 noir, which is a popular website for black women. And in my my 412 00:28:08,700 --> 00:28:14,160 viewpoint, it propagates a lot of liberal slash feminist 413 00:28:14,550 --> 00:28:19,860 ideology. And let's listen to them raising black boys. 414 00:28:20,220 --> 00:28:23,040 That's, that's an important answer. Both of you guys just 415 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,860 talked about legacy. And the future. Did you all plan to be 416 00:28:25,860 --> 00:28:26,340 mothers? 417 00:28:26,730 --> 00:28:27,720 Absolutely not. 418 00:28:29,430 --> 00:28:32,550 Say No, I was a teacher. I'm a teacher. And I think that was my 419 00:28:32,550 --> 00:28:34,980 philosophy is I'm a teacher, so I don't have to have kids. I'll 420 00:28:34,980 --> 00:28:37,410 take care of other people's kids. Okay. So like, that was 421 00:28:37,410 --> 00:28:39,720 never my mission to be somebody's mother. Because 422 00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:43,110 that's, like, so much more intense, because there's so much 423 00:28:43,110 --> 00:28:45,750 more responsibility because they're mine now, so I really 424 00:28:45,750 --> 00:28:46,620 can't mess it up. 425 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:53,070 I don't think anyone plans to be a mother a parent. You You're 426 00:28:53,070 --> 00:28:57,060 never prepared for that. Like, nothing can prepare you for it. 427 00:28:57,060 --> 00:28:59,010 There's no book No book we have ever. 428 00:29:00,510 --> 00:29:02,610 Okay, I agree with some of what I heard though. 429 00:29:03,450 --> 00:29:08,520 Bush, you heard twice in this clip. Okay, let me let me I did 430 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,910 a poor job sitting to clip up. So this is a panel discussion. 431 00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:15,210 It's like six women on the panel. The moderator is a man. 432 00:29:15,780 --> 00:29:20,550 And he's asking questions about raising children, black boys 433 00:29:20,550 --> 00:29:26,910 specifically. And you heard twice in this clip. No one, not 434 00:29:26,910 --> 00:29:30,660 some people. This is their mindset that No one plans to 435 00:29:30,660 --> 00:29:31,290 have children. 436 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,390 Yeah, no, I disagree with that. 437 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:38,640 No, but it was said twice. And out of six people and the 438 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:42,270 moderator nobody pushed back against the actually they you 439 00:29:42,270 --> 00:29:45,450 know if you saw the video, they were like, yeah, like, 440 00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:48,990 well, this begs the question, do you feel that there's much less 441 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:55,980 family planning going on? Yes. And just whatever happens 442 00:29:55,980 --> 00:29:57,360 happens. Is that what it is, 443 00:29:58,020 --> 00:30:02,460 I think that is a lot too. Do with it. My problem and the 444 00:30:02,460 --> 00:30:07,590 reason why I clipped this was the acceptance of that. This is 445 00:30:07,590 --> 00:30:13,380 from this is a clip from 2018. You will think, where if a 446 00:30:13,380 --> 00:30:17,490 problem if you think in single parent households play black 447 00:30:17,490 --> 00:30:22,590 women at a 75% rate hit rate, correct? Right. You would think 448 00:30:22,620 --> 00:30:27,990 that will be the most sensitive to play out planning parenthood 449 00:30:27,990 --> 00:30:32,550 planning, planning? parenthood? Yeah. And 450 00:30:32,550 --> 00:30:35,130 I would and I would say because it was a panel if it if it only 451 00:30:35,130 --> 00:30:37,890 been said once and people glossed over to be like, okay, 452 00:30:37,890 --> 00:30:40,500 in soccer, all right, but twice, yes, I want you to put their 453 00:30:40,500 --> 00:30:41,040 hand up 454 00:30:42,060 --> 00:30:46,710 twice, and then six people, nobody pushed back against it. 455 00:30:46,890 --> 00:30:51,660 And to say no one. They didn't say like a lot of people or, you 456 00:30:51,660 --> 00:30:57,780 know, majority, No one plans. So that was very troubling to me. 457 00:30:58,290 --> 00:31:00,900 So let's get into just so happens. 458 00:31:01,260 --> 00:31:03,510 So like, when I was pregnant with my first son, I never 459 00:31:03,510 --> 00:31:07,230 forget that the CEO of my school, her first words to me 460 00:31:07,230 --> 00:31:10,350 were, oh, but you're not married? And what kind of role 461 00:31:10,350 --> 00:31:14,220 model is that, you know, for for your students? Right. She tried 462 00:31:14,220 --> 00:31:18,300 it. And, and I had explained to her like, you know, I'm not 463 00:31:18,300 --> 00:31:21,450 married, but that does not negate like the woman that I am 464 00:31:21,450 --> 00:31:24,090 or the man he is in the family that we're about to create. It 465 00:31:24,090 --> 00:31:26,100 just so happens that this happened first. 466 00:31:28,020 --> 00:31:34,410 out of wedlock, which I have no issue with. My concern is she 467 00:31:34,410 --> 00:31:40,380 said this, let's be clear. These are six professional women. So 468 00:31:40,380 --> 00:31:45,780 these women are educated, accomplished. And she says, 469 00:31:45,810 --> 00:31:49,800 okay, just just to break down a clip a little bit. She says the 470 00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,830 CEO her school, which I'm think she means principal. Yeah. But 471 00:31:52,830 --> 00:31:55,560 that may be a new term for Bravo school. I don't know what kind 472 00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,380 of school system Yeah, right, what kind of school that was, 473 00:31:58,380 --> 00:32:03,330 but comes to her and say, you know, we look to you to be some 474 00:32:03,330 --> 00:32:08,190 kind of role model to the kids. So how does that gonna be 475 00:32:08,190 --> 00:32:12,690 perceived? As she pushes back like, oh, yeah, she tried that 476 00:32:12,690 --> 00:32:15,900 with me. Right? Yeah. Which was weird. 477 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:19,890 Well, she goes is the thing. Otherwise, she wouldn't have 478 00:32:19,890 --> 00:32:20,340 said it that 479 00:32:20,340 --> 00:32:30,330 way. Right. So but what gets me is that you say you didn't from 480 00:32:30,330 --> 00:32:32,940 the previous clip, she was one of the women that says No one 481 00:32:32,940 --> 00:32:38,490 plans this. Your appear and your supervisor come to you and say, 482 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:43,500 oh, so Aren't you a little worried? I mean, I you say you 483 00:32:43,500 --> 00:32:47,700 catch the attitude back saying, Who are you to say this to me? 484 00:32:47,730 --> 00:32:50,940 What are you gonna say? It just so happens? Right? Right. Right, 485 00:32:50,940 --> 00:32:56,880 right. So what I'm saying is we create this environment. This 486 00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,970 thing, she got a chip on her shoulder about it. So it's a 487 00:32:59,970 --> 00:33:05,760 privileged thing, that certain people are above reproach. I 488 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:09,600 know I made a and I hate using this word, I made an unplanned 489 00:33:11,100 --> 00:33:12,420 event. I say, 490 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,520 well, well put, diplomat you are? 491 00:33:19,380 --> 00:33:20,640 I'm navigating the waters. 492 00:33:22,650 --> 00:33:24,600 We won't tell you kids which one? 493 00:33:26,070 --> 00:33:30,570 Right? So you made an unplanned event appear? And maybe I guess 494 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:36,300 maybe they're older or more, they seem to be more. As I know, 495 00:33:36,330 --> 00:33:40,110 maybe I'm just assuming here asking you like what's going on? 496 00:33:40,110 --> 00:33:44,550 Did you think this thing through? And let's be clear, 497 00:33:44,550 --> 00:33:50,940 women have a bunch of options, pre and post conception. If you 498 00:33:50,940 --> 00:33:53,940 don't feel like it's no the right time or whatever, you have 499 00:33:53,940 --> 00:33:55,590 a bunch of measures, but that's not here today. I don't like 500 00:33:55,590 --> 00:33:58,710 going and getting into that conversation. But this person 501 00:33:58,710 --> 00:34:02,700 says they're up above reproach, like, No, you can't ask me that, 502 00:34:02,730 --> 00:34:04,770 you know, we're just gonna play it by ear, you know, see and see 503 00:34:04,770 --> 00:34:09,600 what happens. And these are how a lot of these single parent 504 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:18,720 households begin. Which I just find a little bit troubling. 505 00:34:18,870 --> 00:34:19,110 Well, 506 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:24,150 it's now I can't say that I have listened to the same types of 507 00:34:24,150 --> 00:34:28,950 conversation from white women. It may be very similar. I don't 508 00:34:28,950 --> 00:34:29,340 know. 509 00:34:31,230 --> 00:34:34,320 I think it is very similar. And I think this is where you get 510 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:42,390 the the pro the big, pro choice push from because no one's 511 00:34:42,390 --> 00:34:46,470 planning it. I don't think this is exclusive to any community. I 512 00:34:46,470 --> 00:34:49,710 think this is a cultural thing of 513 00:34:49,710 --> 00:34:50,280 the day. 514 00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,480 Right? It's a it's a it's a generational thing. And it's 515 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,870 been, you know, this we're probably in the second or third 516 00:34:57,870 --> 00:35:03,540 generation, maybe more All of this being acceptable. And we 517 00:35:03,540 --> 00:35:07,770 have ways of, you know, cleaning up our mistakes, if you know if 518 00:35:07,770 --> 00:35:09,990 that's the word you want to use, and I try to avoid using that 519 00:35:09,990 --> 00:35:16,770 word, but this is where we're at. And so the conversation 520 00:35:16,770 --> 00:35:21,150 between these women further, and it's not like they don't know, 521 00:35:22,050 --> 00:35:24,750 the systematic plans that we discussed on the show 522 00:35:24,750 --> 00:35:25,410 previously. 523 00:35:26,129 --> 00:35:29,549 Well, speaking about children and family units, you know, 524 00:35:29,549 --> 00:35:32,309 studies come out, they say, there are more single black moms 525 00:35:32,309 --> 00:35:34,949 in this country than any other race. 526 00:35:35,549 --> 00:35:38,729 When it comes down to it, I believe that in a certain sense, 527 00:35:38,909 --> 00:35:42,659 black people as a whole were aligned for family units to be 528 00:35:42,659 --> 00:35:45,839 divided. And I think that was done in a systemic way. I 529 00:35:45,839 --> 00:35:49,289 believe that, you know, they created certain systems to 530 00:35:49,289 --> 00:35:52,199 enable the women to feel that they did not have a need for the 531 00:35:52,199 --> 00:35:55,589 men and in turn, it caused, you know, a lack of worth for the 532 00:35:55,589 --> 00:35:59,039 black man and he's very needed, you know, he is someone who is 533 00:35:59,039 --> 00:36:02,909 valuable he is someone who needs to be in the home or that your 534 00:36:02,909 --> 00:36:06,149 young men need to look up to but I feel that systemically we were 535 00:36:06,149 --> 00:36:09,269 programmed to feel that, you know, we can do this without 536 00:36:09,269 --> 00:36:12,029 them, vice versa, things like that. And it's unfortunate 537 00:36:12,029 --> 00:36:14,639 because it's not accurate information, in my opinion. 538 00:36:15,059 --> 00:36:17,879 Oh, thank goodness, someone with half a brain on the panel. 539 00:36:18,749 --> 00:36:23,969 And they were all saying yeah, yes. So they're aware. It's not 540 00:36:23,969 --> 00:36:28,979 that we don't know the things I discussed in the show may be new 541 00:36:28,979 --> 00:36:33,599 to some people but in our community, we know that there 542 00:36:33,599 --> 00:36:37,919 has been things set up because they're common barbershop Beauty 543 00:36:37,919 --> 00:36:43,949 Shop discussions. So we know and I just wanted to let people out 544 00:36:43,949 --> 00:36:47,189 I just wanted to show that clip to say these people are not 545 00:36:47,219 --> 00:36:53,579 oblivious to the systematic plans of you know no man house 546 00:36:53,579 --> 00:36:57,479 and things and welfare culture and things of that nature where 547 00:36:57,509 --> 00:37:03,899 they still fall in the same traps that are set up and I 548 00:37:03,899 --> 00:37:07,289 don't understand why maybe it's because due to privilege you 549 00:37:07,289 --> 00:37:11,309 don't have to do any self reflecting okay, I'm sure you 550 00:37:11,309 --> 00:37:15,749 equivocal or equivalent to black men. We know high blood pressure 551 00:37:15,749 --> 00:37:18,509 is one of the deadliest thing for black men right? 552 00:37:20,070 --> 00:37:21,600 I guess I'm not aware of 553 00:37:22,980 --> 00:37:25,830 it is I mean are Calm down man 554 00:37:25,830 --> 00:37:26,940 mo calm down. 555 00:37:29,550 --> 00:37:36,660 So salt is seeing in the black community as a deadly deadly he 556 00:37:36,660 --> 00:37:39,000 was saying you have a PSA yet started salts gonna kill you, 557 00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:45,660 man. Your pressure man. US Oh, you see this corrective behavior 558 00:37:45,660 --> 00:37:48,840 or mindset between men because it's like, Hey, man, it assaults 559 00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:53,040 gonna kill you. But it's everything of responsibility. 560 00:37:53,700 --> 00:37:59,790 But when you have a whole system set up to make people not have 561 00:38:00,210 --> 00:38:03,990 responsibility, because it benefits the system that set it 562 00:38:03,990 --> 00:38:07,920 up that human nature hardest. Yeah. That's the hardest thing 563 00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:12,510 to compete. I mean to incorrect, compete with it correct. Let's 564 00:38:12,510 --> 00:38:14,220 go on to the hardest thing. What do you think 565 00:38:14,220 --> 00:38:18,450 the hardest thing is to do as a mom? In 2017? Parenting? What 566 00:38:18,450 --> 00:38:21,180 are the things you're worried about the most raising black 567 00:38:21,180 --> 00:38:21,600 children? 568 00:38:22,590 --> 00:38:28,890 That I have boys? I have two boys. Two boys, and how do I 569 00:38:28,890 --> 00:38:32,880 like prepare them for that life? Yes, we're flooded the stress. 570 00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,520 And and there's a lot of stress that I don't know, as a woman. 571 00:38:35,550 --> 00:38:38,430 Yeah, because we have stressed but we also can navigate circles 572 00:38:38,430 --> 00:38:41,220 a little bit better, because the women because we're like, I 573 00:38:41,220 --> 00:38:44,130 don't? How do I prepare? You know, for those moments when he 574 00:38:44,130 --> 00:38:47,100 comes home and something has gone awry in the street and he 575 00:38:47,100 --> 00:38:49,080 doesn't know how to deal with it. Right? Or? 576 00:38:49,650 --> 00:38:51,900 Wow, it's full of contradictions this panel. 577 00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:58,140 Thank you. I'm glad you realize that and it's like I was 578 00:38:58,140 --> 00:39:03,570 listening to this thing. Like you know what the problems are. 579 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:09,930 But you continue to fall form. Yeah, and imagine a young black 580 00:39:09,930 --> 00:39:18,480 boy growing up with this kind of chaos. I can't say any other 581 00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:22,710 word is mental chaos. And there's a reason for that and 582 00:39:22,710 --> 00:39:26,070 we're gonna get to the it's gone. Let me Disclaimer, 583 00:39:26,070 --> 00:39:30,540 disclaimer, I need a disclaimer. This is not a beat up on a 584 00:39:30,540 --> 00:39:36,240 certain segment of society. Show Well, I'm laying this all out 585 00:39:36,240 --> 00:39:40,320 and as you know, always come back around at the end, and we 586 00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:43,500 get the full picture. But it's hanging there with me. Just 587 00:39:43,500 --> 00:39:46,710 saying that right. People that may read they click the stop 588 00:39:46,710 --> 00:39:48,870 button or the skip button is hanging out with me. 589 00:39:49,530 --> 00:39:51,510 misogynist mo on the microphone. 590 00:39:54,240 --> 00:39:55,380 I got three daughters. 591 00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:59,460 Oh, no, that doesn't count my friend. My best friends are 592 00:39:59,460 --> 00:39:59,970 female. 593 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:00,930 Africans are female. 594 00:40:03,750 --> 00:40:05,310 Some of my best friends are female. 595 00:40:07,589 --> 00:40:10,979 Female. Alright, so raising black boys fear, 596 00:40:11,490 --> 00:40:15,000 it's hard to let them be free. When we're fearful, right? Yeah. 597 00:40:15,030 --> 00:40:17,250 Because you know, cuz my best friend, she said like that boy 598 00:40:17,250 --> 00:40:20,550 be free. Yeah, he wants take off his shoes, I don't think it's 599 00:40:20,550 --> 00:40:23,490 hard like for them to be free, like, when we're a little 600 00:40:23,490 --> 00:40:26,130 fearful and I think that's the, that's the tension of like, I 601 00:40:26,130 --> 00:40:28,830 want them to grow. I want them to explore and try stuff out. 602 00:40:29,010 --> 00:40:30,750 But like, I'm, I'm a little scared. 603 00:40:31,319 --> 00:40:39,419 Wow. Okay. So imagine you have a rambunctious boy that wants to 604 00:40:39,419 --> 00:40:45,869 be a boy. And you have nothing but this fearful fear. Energy, 605 00:40:46,769 --> 00:40:51,449 which, I mean, this is perception, this perception, but 606 00:40:51,449 --> 00:40:56,459 I think women may be more fearful, out of survival 607 00:40:56,459 --> 00:41:00,119 mechanism, you know, just through throughout, you know, 608 00:41:01,079 --> 00:41:06,749 time, you know, they have to be more concerned in that thing. 609 00:41:07,079 --> 00:41:11,459 And you have the, that's how I was saying before about my wife, 610 00:41:11,489 --> 00:41:16,019 her antennas are always up, right? And what I do is come in 611 00:41:16,019 --> 00:41:18,509 and I calm like, oh, it's gonna, you know, it's gonna be it's 612 00:41:18,509 --> 00:41:21,749 gonna be alright, you know, are, you know, you kind of put 613 00:41:21,749 --> 00:41:28,469 yourself between, um, between them and the threat. And I think 614 00:41:28,529 --> 00:41:31,619 that's what men not to horn here. But I think that's the 615 00:41:31,619 --> 00:41:34,619 function of us. And maybe that's why we die earlier. I don't 616 00:41:34,619 --> 00:41:40,079 know. But we're always putting ourselves between the threat and 617 00:41:40,079 --> 00:41:43,979 the fear. If your wife hears a knock at night, you're the one 618 00:41:43,979 --> 00:41:48,449 that gets up and goes, inspects the knock, knock her antennas 619 00:41:48,449 --> 00:41:52,529 up, but you respond. And I just just have something that I just 620 00:41:52,529 --> 00:41:56,369 did just think that's how that works. But we hear this thing 621 00:41:56,369 --> 00:41:59,759 called fear comes up and later on the clip was too long to clip 622 00:41:59,759 --> 00:42:07,169 but the talk yeah, comes up. Now, Adam, I know, maybe you may 623 00:42:07,169 --> 00:42:09,629 be aware of the talk. Can you tell me what that is? 624 00:42:09,660 --> 00:42:15,210 Yes. The talk, as far as I'm aware, is when? And I think it's 625 00:42:15,330 --> 00:42:19,650 typically the parents, but it may just be the father or the 626 00:42:19,650 --> 00:42:22,560 mother. But whoever the authority figure is, sets the 627 00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:25,260 young man down. And I don't know if it's just men, I think, 628 00:42:25,530 --> 00:42:29,520 certainly it would have to be and says, Alright, here's how 629 00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,220 you're going to be perceived in the world. Here's what it's like 630 00:42:32,220 --> 00:42:35,550 to be black when you encounter. The top one, of course, is when 631 00:42:35,550 --> 00:42:40,140 you encounter the police. Here's how you act hands on top of the 632 00:42:40,140 --> 00:42:44,640 steering wheel. Yes, sir. Yes, officer, you be polite, because 633 00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,580 that will keep you alive. I'm summarizing, but I'm pretty sure 634 00:42:47,580 --> 00:42:48,210 that's about 635 00:42:48,270 --> 00:42:54,810 right. And you can see how this aligns back to the the cause of 636 00:42:54,810 --> 00:43:00,810 this conversation, the Jay Z statement of what if that talk 637 00:43:00,810 --> 00:43:04,380 is not had. So what here's the two option you have, as he was 638 00:43:04,380 --> 00:43:10,710 saying, as a majority of black men raise and a female dominated 639 00:43:10,710 --> 00:43:16,680 household, either you're going to be extremely feel fearful. Or 640 00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,410 you have no respect for authority, and I know there's a 641 00:43:19,410 --> 00:43:24,900 lot of gray in between that black and white. But that is 642 00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:29,100 you're really left with either you don't respect the authority 643 00:43:29,100 --> 00:43:31,410 and you're saying you're going to combat it, or are you going 644 00:43:31,410 --> 00:43:38,790 to be so fearful that you live a life of anxiety? Um, ah, 645 00:43:39,150 --> 00:43:44,070 inferiority, mental anguish and things of that nature. And this 646 00:43:44,070 --> 00:43:48,390 is a very that's why you need that calming energy. My dad had 647 00:43:48,390 --> 00:43:53,610 Okay, let's get into a fast forward. But so we seen 648 00:43:53,610 --> 00:43:57,180 companies like Procter and Gamble. Yeah, I've 649 00:43:57,180 --> 00:44:01,500 seen this one. I make study of these types of commercials. So I 650 00:44:01,500 --> 00:44:02,700 know what's coming next. 651 00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:07,710 I don't know how they sell soap or Clorox. But Procter and 652 00:44:07,710 --> 00:44:09,720 Gamble the talk who said that 653 00:44:11,250 --> 00:44:20,010 good lady at the store. That is not a compliment. Listen, it's 654 00:44:20,010 --> 00:44:23,820 an ugly nasty word. And you are going to hear it. Nothing I can 655 00:44:23,820 --> 00:44:28,650 do about that. But you are not going to let that word hurt you. 656 00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:31,950 Hear me? 657 00:44:33,540 --> 00:44:35,700 There some people who think you don't deserve the same 658 00:44:35,700 --> 00:44:42,330 privileges just because of what you get. is not fair. It's not 659 00:44:44,940 --> 00:44:46,980 remember, you can do anything make a 660 00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,160 difference is you got to work twice as hard and be twice as 661 00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:53,880 smart. 662 00:44:55,500 --> 00:45:05,430 come straight home and practice. God Okay, stop how's your rear 663 00:45:05,430 --> 00:45:11,580 view? Mirror? Good, good. Okay, good. Now, when you get pulled 664 00:45:11,580 --> 00:45:15,660 over, I'm a good driver. Don't worry, it's not about you 665 00:45:15,660 --> 00:45:22,410 getting a ticket. It's about you not coming home. I'm gonna be 666 00:45:22,410 --> 00:45:31,440 okay one of the many things I love about doing the show with 667 00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:34,530 you Mo is even though I've seen this commercial I've studied 668 00:45:34,530 --> 00:45:39,090 with Procter and Gamble is doing. You have ripped yet 669 00:45:39,090 --> 00:45:42,930 another layer of some kind of crap across my eyes and like 670 00:45:42,930 --> 00:45:46,380 hole man, I didn't even realize it was a mom, I think talking to 671 00:45:46,380 --> 00:45:53,520 her daughter. Hmm. So could not be any further from perhaps the 672 00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:58,260 actual talk as as I've heard of it, a father and a son or 673 00:45:58,260 --> 00:45:59,310 parents in the sun. 674 00:46:00,660 --> 00:46:05,580 And what was missing from that commercial dad? Not a single one 675 00:46:05,580 --> 00:46:11,340 in the whole two minute commercial. Wow. stunning, 676 00:46:11,490 --> 00:46:19,530 stunning. Yeah, let that sink in and that they are eight moms 677 00:46:19,530 --> 00:46:22,500 maybe in the commercial just by percentages. You should at least 678 00:46:22,500 --> 00:46:28,680 have two dads. Oh, wow. At least one not a single dad. And not a 679 00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:29,460 single one. 680 00:46:29,490 --> 00:46:32,790 You know, what would I you know, coming from the advertising 681 00:46:32,790 --> 00:46:37,320 industry. I think the reason why you're seeing that in this 682 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,590 commercial is first of all, just like Gillette, I think these 683 00:46:40,590 --> 00:46:43,800 companies are full of shit. They want to sell so but they want to 684 00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:47,550 sell razor blades or whatever. Who does the shopping. It's the 685 00:46:47,550 --> 00:46:50,250 mom. So they're targeting moms. They're not targeting any 686 00:46:50,250 --> 00:46:52,170 goodness, they're targeting moms. 687 00:46:53,100 --> 00:46:57,450 And that's what it is trauma base advertising. Oh, it's what 688 00:46:57,450 --> 00:46:57,930 it is. 689 00:46:58,710 --> 00:47:01,680 Does that is that already been that's a good one trauma base 690 00:47:01,770 --> 00:47:02,850 TBA baby? 691 00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:09,510 Yes, that is that what we have trauma based entertainment as 692 00:47:09,510 --> 00:47:13,830 he's 12 years of slave the show all these movies coming out. But 693 00:47:13,830 --> 00:47:16,590 now we're starting to cross over into the entertainment to the 694 00:47:16,590 --> 00:47:17,790 advertisement through 695 00:47:17,790 --> 00:47:18,870 exploitation. 696 00:47:21,030 --> 00:47:25,650 So as you're saying, The Father is missing. So we're gonna go 697 00:47:25,650 --> 00:47:29,580 back to one last clip from the mountain war panel, engage. 698 00:47:30,930 --> 00:47:37,440 I want to say that black men, they need to engage, engage with 699 00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:42,120 your children, not only like, take them to the movies know 700 00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:48,090 engage, like play. Enjoy your children, no matter what the 701 00:47:48,090 --> 00:47:52,170 circumstances are. Enjoy your children. Because that's what 702 00:47:52,170 --> 00:47:55,740 they remember. Okay. They remember you playing basketball 703 00:47:55,740 --> 00:47:59,070 with them. They remember you riding bikes with them. They 704 00:47:59,070 --> 00:48:04,260 remember that and it sticks with them. Engage in joy, your 705 00:48:04,260 --> 00:48:04,980 children. 706 00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:13,320 Yes, I agree. So so now you have a mother telling a father how to 707 00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:17,760 be a father. You're not doing it right? No, I'm not. Right. But 708 00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:21,960 the problem with that is and it's very seldom talked about 709 00:48:22,890 --> 00:48:27,480 fathers are second class citizens or second class parents 710 00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:30,840 in this country now 711 00:48:30,899 --> 00:48:34,679 and I just want to want to pause there in our country indeed this 712 00:48:34,679 --> 00:48:39,689 is because I'm a student of advertising every single 713 00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:42,839 especially if it's a white guy that's even better every single 714 00:48:42,839 --> 00:48:46,679 ad where there's a dad he's always a doofus. He's a numb nut 715 00:48:46,679 --> 00:48:50,159 he got the wrong shopping list he didn't do it right he bought 716 00:48:50,159 --> 00:48:53,519 the wrong cars got the wrong clothes on. That is a cultural 717 00:48:53,519 --> 00:48:56,609 thing across the board that's been going on for years now. 718 00:48:57,330 --> 00:48:59,790 It is if you look at modern family 719 00:49:00,540 --> 00:49:02,520 it's still another fantastic example. 720 00:49:02,879 --> 00:49:06,419 But that is that is propaganda people don't understand these 721 00:49:06,419 --> 00:49:10,799 television shows just like I was brought up before about I'm 722 00:49:11,219 --> 00:49:17,699 married with children that shaped the culture for that 723 00:49:17,699 --> 00:49:23,189 time. Dad was useless shoe salesman. Now you fourth fast 724 00:49:23,189 --> 00:49:27,029 forward now dad like said dads. Yes. The dads basically ate that 725 00:49:27,269 --> 00:49:33,149 idiot ATM you know he just kicks out in the money and if you know 726 00:49:33,149 --> 00:49:35,609 but you know why he has to be that way and that's a great I'm 727 00:49:35,609 --> 00:49:39,569 glad you brought that we see Allah we do this is because 728 00:49:39,569 --> 00:49:43,019 fathers don't have any rights in this country. And a woman can 729 00:49:43,019 --> 00:49:47,849 have removed from the household for any reason whatsoever. 730 00:49:47,879 --> 00:49:51,989 Anytime separates you from the children for no reason at all. 731 00:49:52,589 --> 00:49:58,739 That's why the dad has to be such a pansy. Yes, I want to use 732 00:49:58,739 --> 00:49:59,969 another word but I mean 733 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:04,050 Yeah, yeah. And I'll tell you that, certainly when it comes to 734 00:50:04,050 --> 00:50:07,830 divorce and separation, and Europe is worse they are, in 735 00:50:07,830 --> 00:50:10,860 fact, they are so much evolved. They're way ahead of us on that. 736 00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:15,540 And the dad is automatically pretty much the loser, you got 737 00:50:15,540 --> 00:50:19,560 to prove that you're not. Yeah, it's cultural across the board. 738 00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:23,490 And I blame advertising on and, and I'll just put television 739 00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:25,920 entertainment in the advertising category there. 740 00:50:26,910 --> 00:50:29,550 Alright, let's get into second class parents. 741 00:50:29,730 --> 00:50:32,400 Do you have a child who says yes, that's not your child. 742 00:50:33,750 --> 00:50:39,330 Okay, just to say that Trump is both of yours. So either you 743 00:50:39,330 --> 00:50:42,090 take the child or he takes the child, he's the father, no less 744 00:50:42,090 --> 00:50:44,910 than you are the mother. So he told me he was going to take 745 00:50:44,910 --> 00:50:47,850 awhile with him at 130 in the morning, I had to go second, 746 00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:51,870 just a second. So he said, If I'm going to leave my house, if 747 00:50:51,870 --> 00:50:54,150 you told me to leave the house, I'm gonna take my daughter with 748 00:50:54,150 --> 00:50:59,430 me, even though I have sole legal custody. No, no. At that 749 00:50:59,430 --> 00:51:03,090 point, are you telling me what a court order giving you legal 750 00:51:03,090 --> 00:51:07,290 custody of your child? The answer is no, you know. So at 751 00:51:07,290 --> 00:51:10,620 that point, you have mother case, the Father, He has as much 752 00:51:10,620 --> 00:51:13,620 right to take that child as you to. That's how I've been told. 753 00:51:14,070 --> 00:51:17,280 Well, if you've gotten different advice, you will mistake it's 754 00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:21,660 okay. In this country. Fathers are not second class citizens. I 755 00:51:21,660 --> 00:51:25,230 know there are a lot of people out there, including judges and 756 00:51:25,230 --> 00:51:28,260 probation officers who still don't get that message. But 757 00:51:28,260 --> 00:51:31,290 fathers are not second class citizens. Sometimes they're 758 00:51:31,290 --> 00:51:36,270 actually better parents. Not all wins. Sometimes it's 5060. But 759 00:51:36,270 --> 00:51:39,930 it's on a case by case basis. But anybody that says to me can 760 00:51:39,930 --> 00:51:43,680 take my daughter with him. It's not the worst of yours. You made 761 00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:43,920 her. 762 00:51:45,930 --> 00:51:49,200 Oh, man, there's so much about this versus Judge Judy. Right? 763 00:51:49,620 --> 00:51:52,140 Yes. Judge Judy. St. Judge, Judy? 764 00:51:52,470 --> 00:51:55,800 Well, I got it, I gotta tell you a couple things. First of all, 765 00:51:56,190 --> 00:52:00,000 the child is always yours. When the child has done something 766 00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:03,810 shitty. It's like your daughter has done this and that. And 767 00:52:03,810 --> 00:52:06,840 that's, that's universal. And nice. I think I would still get 768 00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:10,350 that if my, my kids are small enough to be in that much 769 00:52:10,350 --> 00:52:15,360 trouble. Second, when I was in college for all three months, in 770 00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:20,430 West Virginia. Ty Hamilton was my roommate. And there's there's 771 00:52:20,430 --> 00:52:24,120 three things that his because we all hang out. We're in the same 772 00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:27,090 dorm room. Three things we'd watch on television, and his 773 00:52:27,090 --> 00:52:30,750 buddies came over and did all black. I have to mention that. 774 00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:34,530 Football, of course, basketball wants out his sports. Let's put 775 00:52:34,530 --> 00:52:39,870 it that way. Golden Girls, and Judge Judy. And I was like, Wow, 776 00:52:39,870 --> 00:52:44,400 you really liked like the show, Judge Judy being favored amongst 777 00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:48,690 black men. I know if that was just that time. Wow, maybe cuz 778 00:52:48,690 --> 00:52:49,800 she's fair. 779 00:52:50,940 --> 00:52:55,350 She She's fair. And that's all we asked for. It's fair, even 780 00:52:55,350 --> 00:53:01,170 though it doesn't exist. But I mean, she's one that it can be. 781 00:53:01,950 --> 00:53:07,350 But I use this clip to illustrate that the privilege 782 00:53:07,350 --> 00:53:09,840 the privilege the mother felt in this case, what why is my 783 00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:10,410 daughter? 784 00:53:10,980 --> 00:53:14,790 She said it? I have so joint custody and judge you like wait 785 00:53:14,790 --> 00:53:19,230 a minute. Have you went before a judge and got that in right now? 786 00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:23,370 Yeah, but I have sold joint custody. Wow. And so called 787 00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:28,980 cultural misunderstanding. You take that mindset. And the you 788 00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:33,360 multiply it by a group of people that haven't gotten the most 789 00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:39,390 fair shakes with the justice system, right. And now you see, 790 00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:44,550 a lot of I know a lot of people that have been through family 791 00:53:44,550 --> 00:53:50,970 court. And your best case scenario, best case is that you 792 00:53:50,970 --> 00:53:54,300 pay a chunk of your salary out and we're going to discuss how 793 00:53:54,300 --> 00:54:00,510 that's calculated a little later on. And you get two days out 794 00:54:00,510 --> 00:54:01,500 every 14 795 00:54:03,060 --> 00:54:04,920 Yeah, it seems so standard. Yeah. 796 00:54:05,700 --> 00:54:10,080 So to go back, the woman's like, engage, engage with your child, 797 00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:19,890 how can I engage when you? No, no, marginalize me to being a 798 00:54:19,890 --> 00:54:26,790 14, you know, one to two days out of every 14 day parent. And 799 00:54:26,790 --> 00:54:32,310 you use the court system family court system as a weapon. Now, I 800 00:54:32,310 --> 00:54:37,560 am not a white supremacist see denier. And the reason why I say 801 00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:43,830 I'm not is this is a clear case. There appears to be white 802 00:54:43,830 --> 00:54:50,910 supremacy. So do explain. Now we go back to man in the house law, 803 00:54:50,910 --> 00:54:59,700 correct. Man the house law. This has been the tool so further and 804 00:54:59,700 --> 00:55:05,580 I use is where before marginalize dads in general. But 805 00:55:05,820 --> 00:55:08,790 when you have dads that fall below the poverty line, they 806 00:55:08,790 --> 00:55:13,620 can't hire good lawyers to fight for their rights in court. Black 807 00:55:13,620 --> 00:55:21,510 and brown men don't get a fair shot or a just shot in family 808 00:55:21,510 --> 00:55:23,190 court. Well, 809 00:55:23,250 --> 00:55:27,450 so when you say white supremacy, you imply that there may be a 810 00:55:27,450 --> 00:55:33,180 misunderstanding, but you imply that there is a systematic plot 811 00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:40,680 to disenfranchise black men, and I personally think it's poor 812 00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:46,080 men. It may have come from black men. But you think that that is 813 00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:50,040 still alive and well today and it's being done specifically for 814 00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:51,060 someone's color? 815 00:55:54,720 --> 00:56:00,510 Someone's colored, okay. If I want to and the thing is, here's 816 00:56:00,510 --> 00:56:04,530 the thing, I think about white supremacy. I think it's about 817 00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:09,150 maintaining rulership. And this is about elite. It doesn't have 818 00:56:09,150 --> 00:56:11,580 to do with every white person. And that's, that's the thing. 819 00:56:12,180 --> 00:56:15,090 All our conversation has been about the elite, the 820 00:56:15,090 --> 00:56:19,020 conversation about between the two men of how to handle the 821 00:56:19,020 --> 00:56:21,570 black race, we're between the elite. Okay, I 822 00:56:21,570 --> 00:56:22,560 got you, I'm with you. 823 00:56:23,460 --> 00:56:29,490 So that's why it's not. That's why you had to be very careful 824 00:56:29,490 --> 00:56:34,170 with those word white supremacy because it's about people that's 825 00:56:34,170 --> 00:56:37,560 in rulership, maintain your rulership. And what is the 826 00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:39,600 predominant race of people in rulership? 827 00:56:39,660 --> 00:56:40,320 White? 828 00:56:41,580 --> 00:56:45,360 That's my point. I'm not saying it's the monks all white. Well, 829 00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,910 let me let me let me let me approach it from a different 830 00:56:47,910 --> 00:56:51,390 direction just to get some context. Okay. And thank you 831 00:56:51,390 --> 00:56:55,890 for, for going into that. I would say if you look at the 832 00:56:55,890 --> 00:57:03,960 black population, as a voting bloc to be controlled, or black 833 00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:10,530 women as a force that you want to control, then yes, I think 834 00:57:10,530 --> 00:57:14,730 that is absolutely in play. And it's we see it in play today 835 00:57:14,730 --> 00:57:20,190 with the current people who are running for the Democratic 836 00:57:20,190 --> 00:57:24,030 nominee, and and others. I mean, it's it's all over the spectrum. 837 00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:28,140 From that regard, then I would say, yeah, everything is being 838 00:57:28,140 --> 00:57:32,250 done to control the black population to maintain their 839 00:57:32,250 --> 00:57:34,020 voting bloc at status quo. 840 00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:41,250 Right. And I want to be clear on what I'm saying here, the motive 841 00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:48,060 is to maintain rulership Yes. So we have to do these things to 842 00:57:48,060 --> 00:57:53,580 maintain it. It's not like it's a racial cabal of like, you're 843 00:57:53,580 --> 00:57:57,510 saying that all spectrums of economic background, now there's 844 00:57:57,510 --> 00:58:00,030 like, oh, we might have some friendly fire some calories a 845 00:58:00,030 --> 00:58:07,680 white men fall to a family court. But so be it. I think 846 00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:10,590 that's how they elite think that's just my personal opinion. 847 00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:13,290 Um, well, I guess 848 00:58:13,620 --> 00:58:16,590 the only reason I'm saying is I know plenty of white families 849 00:58:16,590 --> 00:58:19,710 and white guys who have been in similar situations poverty was 850 00:58:19,710 --> 00:58:23,520 really was really the issue. That's why I'm like, Okay, why 851 00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:26,040 would someone if you're just saying, okay, here are the 852 00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:29,520 blocks, here's black people, these poor black people, these 853 00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:33,300 poor white people, here's women, here's men, and from an elite 854 00:58:33,300 --> 00:58:36,240 standard up at the top, I'm looking at you, George Soros, I 855 00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:38,760 would want to control all those people one way or the other, no 856 00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:39,810 matter what it takes. 857 00:58:40,980 --> 00:58:43,860 And, you know, I got a funny and and this, this is just my 858 00:58:43,860 --> 00:58:49,470 personal viewpoint and opinion, this is this is a opinion. I 859 00:58:49,470 --> 00:58:53,550 think that elite Likud poor white people who say, Hey, you 860 00:58:53,550 --> 00:58:57,300 had all the benefits and you can't make it work. You don't 861 00:58:57,300 --> 00:58:59,940 deserve it. You don't deserve to live. And we've seen this how 862 00:58:59,940 --> 00:59:03,660 they look, the eugenics eugenics wasn't across color lines. No, 863 00:59:03,660 --> 00:59:11,130 it was. So like I said it you may have some casualties of of 864 00:59:11,130 --> 00:59:18,000 the same race. But I think that they look at as as a wheeling, 865 00:59:18,420 --> 00:59:28,050 or, you know, as a no way to get rid of the bottom in their own 866 00:59:28,050 --> 00:59:30,420 race, and that we got it kind of getting off topic, but I just 867 00:59:30,420 --> 00:59:34,830 want to show you that. When people they use that word so 868 00:59:34,830 --> 00:59:38,970 loosely that now it just has no effect. But those two gentlemen 869 00:59:38,970 --> 00:59:41,820 having that conversation, the clip we played before, even 870 00:59:41,820 --> 00:59:45,660 though it's in a fictional movie, that is a form of 871 00:59:45,660 --> 00:59:46,470 supremacy. 872 00:59:46,890 --> 00:59:56,640 No, that was 100% supremacy, and says oh, yes, and I will. It 873 00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:59,430 will usually throw in the white supremacy threw me off a little 874 00:59:59,430 --> 01:00:03,840 bit and Um, because I know I know I know I know but I and I 875 01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:07,740 understand what you're saying and it has only been about 50 876 01:00:07,740 --> 01:00:13,320 years since eugenics was alive and well and and recognized as 877 01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:17,160 such and was specifically targeted at Africans that's the 878 01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:19,530 that's even how they spoke about it the dumb Africans running 879 01:00:19,530 --> 01:00:23,340 around we got to control them so to think that that legacy went 880 01:00:23,340 --> 01:00:26,220 away and 50 years would be stupid so yeah 881 01:00:27,540 --> 01:00:30,960 not only Africans because poor whites in the South were judged 882 01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:32,880 by the saints I mean, they said the 883 01:00:35,310 --> 01:00:37,080 I'm just talking about what a rabbit Mark 884 01:00:37,110 --> 01:00:43,050 Well saying they said the IQ to say this is the line Yeah. Under 885 01:00:43,050 --> 01:00:46,620 it, you know, we'll set the testing methods and if for some 886 01:00:46,620 --> 01:00:49,920 odd people, you know, it's for the greater good and like I 887 01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:52,530 said, I don't want to segue off into that but I'm just telling 888 01:00:52,530 --> 01:00:57,990 you to me if you want to use that word that's the the terms 889 01:00:58,380 --> 01:01:01,080 not in the terms that we think of in pop culture. 890 01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:05,940 If you want to talk about white supremacy that's your that's 891 01:01:05,940 --> 01:01:07,500 your shining example. 892 01:01:07,890 --> 01:01:11,190 Yes, that's that's the point I was making that out. This is one 893 01:01:11,190 --> 01:01:15,150 of the cases where words have changed definitions like racist 894 01:01:15,180 --> 01:01:15,870 or 895 01:01:16,410 --> 01:01:19,410 yeah, that almost means nothing anymore. Yeah, it's it's 896 01:01:19,650 --> 01:01:23,370 want to make sure that this is this will be the picture and the 897 01:01:23,370 --> 01:01:26,760 definition if you want to define something that way, but let's 898 01:01:26,760 --> 01:01:34,350 just get let's get back on track and see this privilege and an 899 01:01:34,350 --> 01:01:37,710 action in joint custody gone wrong. This is a little bit of 900 01:01:37,710 --> 01:01:40,350 long clip but it's important no hate 901 01:01:40,350 --> 01:01:41,370 each other's guts. 902 01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:44,820 It's all nice lovey dovey on everybody else 903 01:01:47,490 --> 01:01:48,600 either you 904 01:01:50,130 --> 01:01:57,030 saying anything negative about your borrow or your little trip 905 01:01:57,030 --> 01:02:02,820 to the dark Cafe breakfast table and there is no shade last week 906 01:02:15,150 --> 01:02:18,600 that you have withheld that little warning no don't even 907 01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:18,780 look 908 01:02:23,910 --> 01:02:26,100 to the dark admin branch today day 909 01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:34,650 you say wonderful work that never she's got a technical 910 01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:40,680 writer Madison's we get them set up this whole year to catch the 911 01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:47,580 Deadpool letter Matt not gonna show you guys okay, better at 912 01:02:48,810 --> 01:02:51,810 random back when I told you I never thought 913 01:02:53,010 --> 01:02:54,900 he will say he got way out. 914 01:02:56,730 --> 01:03:03,030 You're gonna retire Yogi MetroTech from lucky and if 915 01:03:03,030 --> 01:03:13,500 you're ready to purchase packages about child joint 916 01:03:13,500 --> 01:03:14,100 custody 917 01:03:17,490 --> 01:03:47,910 This is a screen once you guys are doing. Yeah, that was hard 918 01:03:47,910 --> 01:03:49,500 to listen to. Like, 919 01:03:50,189 --> 01:03:53,699 I want to, I want to set that up a little better. So just to give 920 01:03:53,699 --> 01:03:58,049 people what was going on there. You have to a wife and a husband 921 01:03:58,949 --> 01:04:02,849 going through a joint custody hearing. And this is in my 922 01:04:02,849 --> 01:04:05,939 hometown of Durham, North Carolina. It was funny though, I 923 01:04:05,939 --> 01:04:10,679 thought was cloud white. Wow. And you see, she had no respect 924 01:04:10,679 --> 01:04:14,429 for the judge. And he told her if you have any content and just 925 01:04:14,429 --> 01:04:17,369 to give a little background, he was like you gotta know if any 926 01:04:17,369 --> 01:04:19,559 of you guys say anything, you know, I'm gonna find that you 927 01:04:19,559 --> 01:04:22,049 can see him you're gonna do 24 hours and you're saying in jail. 928 01:04:23,069 --> 01:04:26,429 And the gentleman's like the lawyer for the guy said yes. And 929 01:04:26,429 --> 01:04:31,499 he said yes. And then by the females lawyer said, No, tell 930 01:04:31,499 --> 01:04:36,389 her say yes. And she was lying. But yeah. And soon as you know, 931 01:04:36,419 --> 01:04:41,729 she was losing control of the the apparatus that was set up 932 01:04:41,729 --> 01:04:44,429 for her to have the power and control over the family and the 933 01:04:44,429 --> 01:04:50,309 man. You saw her go apeshit excuse language. Yep. Even 934 01:04:50,309 --> 01:04:53,339 though she was gonna go to jail and Sony that just said joint 935 01:04:53,339 --> 01:04:56,369 custody. Yeah, she went on when she lost it. Yeah. 936 01:04:58,590 --> 01:05:03,120 So you It was a privilege possessives thing. 937 01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:10,530 It is a privilege. Yep, it's a privilege, and nine times out of 938 01:05:10,530 --> 01:05:13,830 10. The ruins come out in their favor. But I think judges are 939 01:05:13,830 --> 01:05:20,580 getting more aware. And also the child support system is becoming 940 01:05:20,580 --> 01:05:23,430 more aware because our recalculations are being done. 941 01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:27,210 So let's get into changes to the Illinois child support, 942 01:05:27,509 --> 01:05:30,929 child support will be based upon a percentage of that parents net 943 01:05:30,929 --> 01:05:35,189 income. And depending upon how many children support was being 944 01:05:35,189 --> 01:05:38,009 paid for, the percentage would go up, for example, it would be 945 01:05:38,009 --> 01:05:42,839 20% of that parents net income for one child 28% for two 946 01:05:42,839 --> 01:05:47,639 children 32% For three children 40% For for children and on up. 947 01:05:48,269 --> 01:05:51,659 And it did not take into consideration the income that 948 01:05:51,659 --> 01:05:58,259 the custodial parent made. Illinois was in the minority. 949 01:05:58,289 --> 01:06:01,559 And I have not checked to see for sure how many states have 950 01:06:01,559 --> 01:06:04,379 gone to income share, but I think 40 of the 50 somewhere in 951 01:06:04,379 --> 01:06:07,559 that area use an income share model, which is what Illinois 952 01:06:07,829 --> 01:06:12,479 now is using since July 1 of this year. under that system, 953 01:06:12,749 --> 01:06:18,779 child support is calculated. Looking at the income the net 954 01:06:18,779 --> 01:06:22,769 income of both parents, and there's a chart that is used to 955 01:06:22,769 --> 01:06:27,389 determine what a child should receive by way of support from 956 01:06:27,929 --> 01:06:31,259 parent a making X number of dollars and parent be making X 957 01:06:31,259 --> 01:06:33,689 number of dollars and then you determine what that joint 958 01:06:33,689 --> 01:06:36,479 support obligation should be. And then that obligation is 959 01:06:36,479 --> 01:06:39,359 divided between the parents based upon their relative 960 01:06:39,359 --> 01:06:42,359 income. So if you've got a parent that makes 40% of their 961 01:06:42,359 --> 01:06:45,809 total net income, and the other parent making 60% of their total 962 01:06:45,809 --> 01:06:50,099 net income, that support obligation would be paid by 40% 963 01:06:50,099 --> 01:06:54,899 by one parent 60% by the other. And it is felt to be fair, 964 01:06:54,899 --> 01:06:57,989 because it's based upon both parents incomes as opposed to 965 01:06:57,989 --> 01:06:59,609 just the non custodial parents. 966 01:06:59,880 --> 01:07:02,880 So it's a head scratcher that that wasn't already the case. 967 01:07:05,790 --> 01:07:11,040 And also later in the clip, how much the child spends with each 968 01:07:11,040 --> 01:07:14,940 parent factors into it as well. But that was just wasn't Klippel 969 01:07:14,970 --> 01:07:18,450 clippable. To include that you were saying? little caveat. So 970 01:07:18,450 --> 01:07:23,790 now you see when you have joint custody means equal 971 01:07:24,180 --> 01:07:25,470 burden, equal 972 01:07:25,830 --> 01:07:32,010 equal burden. So there's no monetary benefit. You have no 973 01:07:32,010 --> 01:07:38,190 control of a child timewise. And we've seen this in my community, 974 01:07:38,190 --> 01:07:41,700 the black community, that child support has been used as a 975 01:07:41,700 --> 01:07:45,960 weapon against the black man. Yeah. So this is a popular 976 01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:50,880 YouTuber, Dominica, Marie, and she discusses that point. Look, 977 01:07:51,900 --> 01:08:00,030 child support should not be used as a weapon. Child support is 978 01:08:00,030 --> 01:08:06,450 exactly that money that is utilized to support the child, 979 01:08:06,870 --> 01:08:10,680 not money that is held over somebody's head, that doesn't 980 01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:14,670 want to be with you anymore. Not money that is used to hold 981 01:08:14,670 --> 01:08:19,890 somebody hostage in a dead end relationship, not money that is 982 01:08:19,890 --> 01:08:24,570 being taken away from somebody that is already financially and 983 01:08:24,570 --> 01:08:30,930 physically contributing to their child's life. So please, can we 984 01:08:30,930 --> 01:08:36,360 grow the hell up and stop using our children as pawns and child 985 01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:41,370 support as some sort of insurance policy, scare tactic 986 01:08:41,430 --> 01:08:43,110 and financial weapon? 987 01:08:45,060 --> 01:08:48,420 If I may, from personal experience, when I got divorced, 988 01:08:49,020 --> 01:08:55,890 our daughter was 18 but she was still living at home. The system 989 01:08:56,070 --> 01:09:02,310 that jumped into play with my ex wife was immediately he's going 990 01:09:02,310 --> 01:09:06,720 to pay for everything we're going to clean him out. Hmm. And 991 01:09:06,930 --> 01:09:10,710 all of that was through and it was the lawyer lawyers were all 992 01:09:10,710 --> 01:09:14,790 over that pushing, pushing, and actually made the whole process 993 01:09:14,790 --> 01:09:16,320 much worse than it ever had to be. 994 01:09:18,450 --> 01:09:23,760 That's case in point. But as she said, when you have a scorned 995 01:09:23,760 --> 01:09:29,040 woman, and she's been with us she's made aware of what our 996 01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:30,840 rights and privileges are. 997 01:09:31,500 --> 01:09:34,830 Or she has she has perceived what her rights and privileges 998 01:09:34,830 --> 01:09:35,190 are. 999 01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:42,840 Right? She can use it as leverage against the man. Yes, 1000 01:09:42,930 --> 01:09:46,500 they use the child as leverage against the man and we seen that 1001 01:09:46,860 --> 01:09:51,180 in recent news story with a powerful a basketball player 1002 01:09:51,180 --> 01:09:57,120 named DeMarcus Cousins. Now, he makes more than enough money. So 1003 01:09:57,120 --> 01:10:01,590 money is not an issue to him to pay child support. But 1004 01:10:01,710 --> 01:10:06,180 visitation is also a part of this and the child being 1005 01:10:06,180 --> 01:10:10,260 withheld. So let's look at our former warrior centered DeMarcus 1006 01:10:10,260 --> 01:10:10,770 Cousins, 1007 01:10:11,100 --> 01:10:14,760 former Deathstar. Demarcus Cousins and a bit of hot water 1008 01:10:14,760 --> 01:10:15,180 tonight. 1009 01:10:15,270 --> 01:10:17,640 That's why he's accused of threatening to shoot the mother 1010 01:10:17,640 --> 01:10:18,780 of his child. 1011 01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:21,630 Our Elizabeth cook in the newsroom. She has the latest for 1012 01:10:21,630 --> 01:10:24,720 us, Liz. Yeah, can Veronica The NBA is investigating these 1013 01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:28,680 allegations against against DeMarcus Cousins the all star 1014 01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:31,620 Lakers center is accused of threatening his ex girlfriend 1015 01:10:31,950 --> 01:10:34,860 during an argument about whether his son should attend his 1016 01:10:34,860 --> 01:10:38,910 wedding. And the ex girlfriend says she has the audio to prove 1017 01:10:38,910 --> 01:10:47,220 it. Because no, he's not coming. 1018 01:10:52,440 --> 01:10:54,840 No cousins allegedly made the threats over the phone on 1019 01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:58,020 Friday, one day before his wedding. Now according to court 1020 01:10:58,020 --> 01:11:01,170 documents obtained by ESPN, because his ex girlfriend is 1021 01:11:01,170 --> 01:11:04,350 seeking a restraining order against him. In addition to the 1022 01:11:04,350 --> 01:11:07,230 threats made in the leaked audio, she alleges that cousins 1023 01:11:07,230 --> 01:11:08,910 had previously choked her. 1024 01:11:10,890 --> 01:11:14,550 So I'm not defending DeMarcus Cousins or his actions or 1025 01:11:14,700 --> 01:11:18,180 anything. I'm trying to use this as an educational point here. 1026 01:11:18,570 --> 01:11:23,070 Now background on DeMarcus Cousins. He has had to dramatic 1027 01:11:23,130 --> 01:11:29,940 injuries back to back years. That has been impacted his 1028 01:11:29,940 --> 01:11:33,570 earning capability. He was set aside and some god ungodly 1029 01:11:33,570 --> 01:11:37,500 amount of money maybe 150 to $200 million contract, right. 1030 01:11:37,980 --> 01:11:43,020 But before he signs it, he blows out his Achilles. Yeah, he 1031 01:11:43,020 --> 01:11:46,380 fights through that. He comes back the next year he signs a 1032 01:11:46,380 --> 01:11:52,860 small little small deal. Then he blows out his ACL. Just to put 1033 01:11:52,860 --> 01:11:56,070 you in the mental state of what a person is going through, 1034 01:11:56,100 --> 01:12:01,200 right. So then he has he wants his son to come to his wedding 1035 01:12:01,530 --> 01:12:05,340 of another woman that he's marrying. And the mother says 1036 01:12:05,340 --> 01:12:10,080 now he can't come. Just giving background because when you hear 1037 01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:13,830 these stories, you don't get their perspective. Just to give 1038 01:12:13,830 --> 01:12:17,400 some further black background, not only to DeMarcus Cousins 1039 01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:21,720 take care his child he's a very giving person to other children 1040 01:12:21,720 --> 01:12:22,200 as well. 1041 01:12:23,220 --> 01:12:26,880 New at nine tonight 100 local children got the shop till they 1042 01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:30,750 dropped in mobiele tonight, and it's all thanks to NBA star 1043 01:12:30,750 --> 01:12:35,580 DeMarcus Cousins. He put on his seventh annual Santa cause 1044 01:12:35,610 --> 01:12:38,790 holiday shopping spree. styler finger does live in the newsroom 1045 01:12:38,790 --> 01:12:42,180 tonight with Tyler great fantastic day for the children 1046 01:12:42,180 --> 01:12:42,900 who enjoyed 1047 01:12:43,170 --> 01:12:46,290 it yes, the these kids from five mobile elementary schools were 1048 01:12:46,290 --> 01:12:49,560 given 200 bucks and Target gift cards so they could shop for the 1049 01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:52,710 holidays. The ones we talked with say they got a lot of good 1050 01:12:52,710 --> 01:12:53,370 gifts. 1051 01:12:55,650 --> 01:13:03,000 So I'm just illustrating you gotta got going through a life 1052 01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:08,250 changing traumatic experiences. monetary loss. He has a 1053 01:13:08,250 --> 01:13:12,150 background of being not only giving to his child but other 1054 01:13:12,150 --> 01:13:16,170 children seven years running. He's done this donation thing, 1055 01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:24,300 right? Yep. But he's want his mother whose child is 1056 01:13:24,300 --> 01:13:28,710 withholding his child from coming to the wedding but he's 1057 01:13:28,710 --> 01:13:30,510 about to marry another woman. Yeah, that's 1058 01:13:30,540 --> 01:13:34,710 it's what? It's what happens in divorces across the board 1059 01:13:34,710 --> 01:13:37,740 children are weaponized in this. And the 1060 01:13:37,740 --> 01:13:41,130 reason why I'm bringing this up is not defense DeMarcus Cousins, 1061 01:13:41,130 --> 01:13:45,390 but I am highlighting how the family court system is setting 1062 01:13:45,390 --> 01:13:51,630 women up to be harmed by men that are put through such mental 1063 01:13:51,630 --> 01:13:56,820 anguish that they can lose that they can lose the you you can go 1064 01:13:56,820 --> 01:14:01,620 search on YouTube Google man shoots woman after custody 1065 01:14:01,620 --> 01:14:05,550 hearing man shoot, you know, you see it over and over again. But 1066 01:14:05,550 --> 01:14:09,900 it's like the prescription drug thing. It's like Oh, just a 1067 01:14:09,900 --> 01:14:13,020 crazy man that shot his girlfriend or ex wife for 1068 01:14:13,020 --> 01:14:17,610 mother's child. They never get to the root root cause of what 1069 01:14:17,610 --> 01:14:21,570 it is. And I'm saying this to say this to protect women. 1070 01:14:23,250 --> 01:14:29,100 You're giving them a perceived privilege or leveraging to over 1071 01:14:29,100 --> 01:14:34,440 men which is very dangerous to do that's very dangerous to a 1072 01:14:34,440 --> 01:14:38,520 man especially a man that loves his kids. If you're saying you 1073 01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:41,400 know you never see your kid again. You don't know what that 1074 01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:44,670 does to a man's mental state and mental health and his country as 1075 01:14:44,670 --> 01:14:50,850 we see him end up and violent acts over and over again but we 1076 01:14:50,850 --> 01:14:53,490 never look at the trigger and see how we can resolve the 1077 01:14:53,490 --> 01:14:56,880 trigger for even happening. That's why I put brought this up 1078 01:14:56,880 --> 01:15:01,110 not to be a defensive anybody because First of all, you should 1079 01:15:01,110 --> 01:15:08,850 always maintain your cool and I say to men and second of all we 1080 01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:11,250 in this, you have to expect this, like you said, going 1081 01:15:11,250 --> 01:15:13,380 through a divorce, you gotta expect these things to happen. 1082 01:15:13,380 --> 01:15:17,730 So never lose your cool, control what you can control. Now fast 1083 01:15:17,730 --> 01:15:22,860 forwarding to you. Now you may have asked, How did this 1084 01:15:24,480 --> 01:15:29,880 situation of single parenthood in the black community happen? 1085 01:15:30,180 --> 01:15:35,070 We've looked at one side of it from being pushed down through 1086 01:15:35,070 --> 01:15:41,280 no man in the house. But there's also a marriage between feminism 1087 01:15:41,970 --> 01:15:44,040 and civil rights movement. 1088 01:15:44,849 --> 01:15:49,439 Feminism, when when feminism arose in the 1960s, it was 1089 01:15:50,699 --> 01:15:53,939 different for women of every kind, because women never 1090 01:15:53,939 --> 01:15:58,649 thought of themselves. These white women, as a particularly 1091 01:15:58,649 --> 01:16:04,709 disadvantaged group, as far as black women were concerned, the 1092 01:16:04,799 --> 01:16:09,629 overlap between the women's movement and the Africa and the, 1093 01:16:09,809 --> 01:16:15,959 and the civil rights movement caused some confusion. Black 1094 01:16:15,959 --> 01:16:19,949 people were trying to get their arms around what it meant to 1095 01:16:19,949 --> 01:16:24,599 bring change in this country. And here come a large group, a 1096 01:16:24,599 --> 01:16:28,769 much larger group, who are not necessarily black, in fact, 1097 01:16:28,769 --> 01:16:32,489 we're White, who are trying to do the same thing. And it really 1098 01:16:32,489 --> 01:16:36,659 took some leadership on the part of some black women and they 1099 01:16:36,659 --> 01:16:41,279 ought to be understood, who understood they were both black 1100 01:16:41,969 --> 01:16:47,069 and women, it took that kind of leadership to to engage this 1101 01:16:47,069 --> 01:16:51,749 community, this confusion to understand this confusion, but 1102 01:16:51,839 --> 01:16:57,149 to deal with this confusion within the community, you know, 1103 01:16:57,149 --> 01:17:02,219 when when a straight out civil rights activist, leader of the 1104 01:17:02,219 --> 01:17:05,039 women's movement like Gloria Steinem, this gorgeous white 1105 01:17:05,069 --> 01:17:11,009 woman, you know, comes forward and talks about feminism. She is 1106 01:17:11,009 --> 01:17:16,409 She is still the very best, but it is very hard for black women 1107 01:17:16,409 --> 01:17:18,209 to identify with her initially. 1108 01:17:19,110 --> 01:17:26,250 I have to disclaim here I've met Eleanor Holmes, the non voting 1109 01:17:26,250 --> 01:17:31,140 representative from the District of Columbia. I've observed her I 1110 01:17:31,140 --> 01:17:34,380 find her to be an incredibly dishonest followship person, but 1111 01:17:34,380 --> 01:17:38,880 that has no bearing on what she said here. But I'm no fan of 1112 01:17:38,880 --> 01:17:39,660 Eleanor Holmes. 1113 01:17:40,380 --> 01:17:43,020 So yes, that's our representative Eleanor Holmes 1114 01:17:43,020 --> 01:17:48,630 Norton, as she's speaking on how the civil rights movement was 1115 01:17:48,630 --> 01:17:54,330 hijacked. Basically, and you heard her used by the feminist 1116 01:17:54,330 --> 01:17:59,880 movement, and you heard her use the word confusion, confusion, 1117 01:17:59,940 --> 01:18:06,300 and that was steered by one and only Gloria Steinem. Adam, what 1118 01:18:06,300 --> 01:18:08,280 can you tell us about Gloria Steinem 1119 01:18:09,300 --> 01:18:14,850 first of all my mom loved her which is coming up right now is 1120 01:18:15,030 --> 01:18:17,100 is doing all kinds of stuff in my brain 1121 01:18:18,059 --> 01:18:23,969 as as the My Mom Yeah. As the mama reason why I say that Mama 1122 01:18:24,029 --> 01:18:27,269 and we I came from a very weird background not interrupt you but 1123 01:18:27,269 --> 01:18:31,379 just the cosine what you're saying. My mom was a bra 1124 01:18:31,379 --> 01:18:42,299 burning. Now, feminists of that time she she fell into the arm 1125 01:18:43,169 --> 01:18:46,799 propaganda that was being put forward but continue with your 1126 01:18:46,799 --> 01:18:47,249 point. 1127 01:18:48,090 --> 01:18:50,220 Well, I'm just trying to think back because you know, when I 1128 01:18:50,220 --> 01:18:54,810 think of Stein and I think of you know, Jane Fonda I was 1129 01:18:54,900 --> 01:19:02,190 pretty young. But I just remember I mean, I've she 1130 01:19:02,190 --> 01:19:08,520 doesn't I'm not getting much trying to recall other than my 1131 01:19:08,520 --> 01:19:14,010 mom was totally into her. I could feel the tension around 1132 01:19:14,100 --> 01:19:20,070 that. But no, I don't have much I of course, no, she who she who 1133 01:19:20,070 --> 01:19:22,500 she is what she represented, but I don't have some issues. 1134 01:19:22,530 --> 01:19:27,000 She was a big time proponent for fifth feminism at the time, of 1135 01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:32,790 course. And also, she empowered Alice Walker. For the people 1136 01:19:32,790 --> 01:19:36,210 that know who don't know who Alice Walker is. She's most 1137 01:19:36,210 --> 01:19:38,820 famous for writing the book The Color 1138 01:19:38,820 --> 01:19:41,700 Purple. Oh, of course. Of course. Of course. 1139 01:19:41,970 --> 01:19:46,590 Her writing is activism and her activism is writing so it's 1140 01:19:46,620 --> 01:19:52,650 there's really as as as it's not possible to separate Alice from 1141 01:19:52,650 --> 01:19:57,090 her work. She's of anybody I can know I've ever known I could 1142 01:19:57,090 --> 01:20:01,080 possibly imagine she's the most true you know, she I mean, when 1143 01:20:01,080 --> 01:20:04,410 people used to ask me in the early days, what is Alice Walker 1144 01:20:04,410 --> 01:20:08,520 really like I always said, She's exactly like you think, you know 1145 01:20:08,550 --> 01:20:11,400 there is not a private self and a Public 1146 01:20:11,400 --> 01:20:18,330 Self. Now, the reason why I say my mom loved Gloria Steinem is 1147 01:20:18,330 --> 01:20:23,910 because Alice Walker gave her her cosign to the black 1148 01:20:23,910 --> 01:20:28,890 community. Or you hit Get looking at another way, Gloria 1149 01:20:28,890 --> 01:20:33,750 Steinem and power Alice Walker to be coming to personally she 1150 01:20:33,750 --> 01:20:38,760 was on the level that she was into N O. N, in the public eye. 1151 01:20:39,960 --> 01:20:44,040 So as I said before Alice Walker she's most famous for writing 1152 01:20:44,040 --> 01:20:49,320 Color Purple. When I first saw Color Purple as a young you 1153 01:20:49,320 --> 01:20:53,190 know, child, I mean, to be honest with you, that movie was 1154 01:20:53,400 --> 01:20:58,290 shown to young children, because it was one of the preeminent 1155 01:20:58,290 --> 01:21:03,120 Black movies of Jesus from the storytelling and it was done by 1156 01:21:03,120 --> 01:21:07,500 Steven Spielberg. And you know, you had never seen a black movie 1157 01:21:07,500 --> 01:21:11,940 done on that level. I think it was really cutting edge at that 1158 01:21:11,940 --> 01:21:15,180 time. We just watched this cinematography and know just 1159 01:21:15,330 --> 01:21:19,440 what it was. I was great movie of course. But when I go back 1160 01:21:19,440 --> 01:21:27,840 and watch it with my adult eyes, it was very man hating and I 1161 01:21:27,840 --> 01:21:32,130 know that term is thrown around by the MiG tau community and 1162 01:21:32,130 --> 01:21:35,190 these things not anti feminist community. But the reason why I 1163 01:21:35,190 --> 01:21:42,210 say that is there is not a single positive black male 1164 01:21:42,210 --> 01:21:49,980 figure in that movie right at all. Either they were childhood 1165 01:21:49,980 --> 01:22:01,320 abusers pedophiles all the top 10 Yeah. Domestic violence, 1166 01:22:01,500 --> 01:22:11,190 rape. Kidnappers I mean, my exact call. Yeah. So like I 1167 01:22:11,190 --> 01:22:14,730 said, and when I watched this movie now with my adult eyes, 1168 01:22:14,730 --> 01:22:18,210 I'm like Jesus Christ. Is trauma based. 1169 01:22:18,240 --> 01:22:20,160 Yeah. Entertainment, entertainment. Yeah. 1170 01:22:21,630 --> 01:22:25,620 I'm talking about women watch this thing all repeatedly. I 1171 01:22:25,620 --> 01:22:28,950 mean, you know, even to today, you know, they I mean, you can 1172 01:22:28,950 --> 01:22:33,210 quote that thing. In my community, you can quote it line 1173 01:22:33,210 --> 01:22:40,080 for line. And that's how successful propaganda is. Now 1174 01:22:40,110 --> 01:22:45,450 with that says, Alice Walker. Hard. Her daughter came out and 1175 01:22:45,450 --> 01:22:50,520 did an interview and Daily Mail. And just a couple of quotes from 1176 01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:54,540 the interview. She said, You see, my mom taught me that 1177 01:22:54,540 --> 01:22:58,950 children and slave women. I grew up believing that children are 1178 01:22:58,950 --> 01:23:02,910 millstone around your neck. And the idea that motherhood can 1179 01:23:02,910 --> 01:23:08,730 make you blissfully happy is is a complete fairy tale. No choice 1180 01:23:09,450 --> 01:23:14,880 drives, this is how this woman propagandize her own child. Wow, 1181 01:23:14,910 --> 01:23:18,780 another quote, my mother's feminine feminist principle 1182 01:23:18,780 --> 01:23:23,100 colored every aspect of my life. As a little girl, I wasn't even 1183 01:23:23,100 --> 01:23:26,070 allowed to play with dolls or stuffed toys in case they 1184 01:23:26,070 --> 01:23:31,290 brought out i maternal instinct. Wow. These are quotes from 1185 01:23:31,320 --> 01:23:35,940 Alice's Walker's daughter. And like you said, and when you if 1186 01:23:35,940 --> 01:23:38,970 you go back to that clip, Gloria Steinem said, well, there was 1187 01:23:38,970 --> 01:23:43,350 only one Alice Walker. So she, however she was in the media. 1188 01:23:43,980 --> 01:23:47,850 She was in private. She was that way in private. Another quote 1189 01:23:47,850 --> 01:23:51,240 from her daughter. It was drummed into me that being a 1190 01:23:51,240 --> 01:23:54,360 mother raising children and running a home were a form of 1191 01:23:54,360 --> 01:23:59,100 slavery. Can you see how this was played out in her work per 1192 01:23:59,100 --> 01:24:02,910 color? Purple? Oh, yeah. That was given to the world and 1193 01:24:02,910 --> 01:24:07,260 propagandize my community. I'm saying and still, it still comes 1194 01:24:07,260 --> 01:24:13,260 on BT women BT l almost every other Saturday. final quote, 1195 01:24:13,320 --> 01:24:18,180 well, my mother may ask me, my mother may be revered by women 1196 01:24:18,180 --> 01:24:23,040 around the world. Goodness knows. Many even have shrines to 1197 01:24:23,040 --> 01:24:27,930 her by honestly believe it's time to puncture the myth and to 1198 01:24:28,200 --> 01:24:32,370 reveal what life was really like growing up as a child of the 1199 01:24:32,370 --> 01:24:33,630 Feminist Revolution 1200 01:24:34,290 --> 01:24:41,850 really puts a whole new puts Oprah in a whole new light in in 1201 01:24:41,850 --> 01:24:44,580 his projects, who has no children. 1202 01:24:45,990 --> 01:24:50,430 Right. So now we see how these things keep getting pushed 1203 01:24:50,430 --> 01:24:54,750 forward. And if you ask any black feminist about Alice 1204 01:24:54,750 --> 01:24:59,460 Walker, she would have the same way that Gandhi you know, it 1205 01:24:59,460 --> 01:25:01,410 doesn't matter. Right, like we've talked about before these 1206 01:25:01,410 --> 01:25:05,940 icons, it's not about what they who they truly were, how many 1207 01:25:05,940 --> 01:25:08,880 this is her daughter saying this, this is not some, you 1208 01:25:08,880 --> 01:25:11,520 know, as well. I always like to use quotes of people that are 1209 01:25:11,970 --> 01:25:15,420 our will be seen as fair and balanced. I don't like to use 1210 01:25:15,600 --> 01:25:19,470 extremists quotes from one side or the other. But now back to 1211 01:25:19,470 --> 01:25:24,120 Gloria Steinem and Gloria Steinem had a very interesting 1212 01:25:24,120 --> 01:25:26,880 beginning clip 24 Gloria at 1213 01:25:26,880 --> 01:25:30,510 the festival, you worked for the independent research service. 1214 01:25:32,130 --> 01:25:32,520 Well, 1215 01:25:32,580 --> 01:25:36,210 exactly when did your own association with the CIA 1216 01:25:36,210 --> 01:25:42,630 starred? In what fashion they come to you to do that? In 1958, 1217 01:25:42,810 --> 01:25:46,590 when I came home from from India, I discussed with student 1218 01:25:46,980 --> 01:25:51,390 leaders past and present, many of them active with the National 1219 01:25:51,390 --> 01:25:57,000 Student Association, this kind of small foundation to encourage 1220 01:25:57,000 --> 01:26:02,340 Americans to go, they thought it was a good idea to I was then 1221 01:26:02,460 --> 01:26:07,440 told by foundations and professors and friends, that it 1222 01:26:07,920 --> 01:26:10,950 that I should not do this, that I would get in trouble with 1223 01:26:10,950 --> 01:26:13,860 house on American Activities Committee, the American Legion, 1224 01:26:14,700 --> 01:26:21,120 all of those 50s people. And I became convinced that it was 1225 01:26:21,120 --> 01:26:25,020 impossible. It was at that point that the student leaders said to 1226 01:26:25,020 --> 01:26:28,920 me that they had in the past received funds for international 1227 01:26:28,920 --> 01:26:33,090 programs from the CIA, and that they felt that this was 1228 01:26:33,090 --> 01:26:35,970 important and could also be partly funded by the CIA. 1229 01:26:37,620 --> 01:26:40,740 And there we go, Hello, spooks. 1230 01:26:42,540 --> 01:26:48,780 Now, now we know about Cohen's work on COINTELPRO. We've seen 1231 01:26:48,780 --> 01:26:53,670 how think tanks in government agencies had infiltrated 1232 01:26:54,060 --> 01:26:59,460 movements as before, why would I not believe Gloria Steinem was 1233 01:26:59,460 --> 01:27:04,590 sent in to destabilize the movement that was going on 1234 01:27:04,590 --> 01:27:08,430 called the civil rights movement? Well, why would I not 1235 01:27:08,430 --> 01:27:12,630 believe that? Now I can say I have a conspiratorial vein in 1236 01:27:12,630 --> 01:27:17,370 me. But when I hear this, and you hear Alice Walker, and you 1237 01:27:17,370 --> 01:27:21,000 hear how she was put up and propped up wild, I would not 1238 01:27:21,000 --> 01:27:23,220 believe this. But let's listen to clip to 1239 01:27:23,460 --> 01:27:27,540 particular points of view to put forward which would have been 1240 01:27:27,570 --> 01:27:32,370 much, much more restricting than then the CIA funds were which 1241 01:27:32,370 --> 01:27:34,980 were free. I mean, no one was told what to say. 1242 01:27:35,340 --> 01:27:37,530 I mean, they were free. You mean to say it was easier for you to 1243 01:27:37,530 --> 01:27:39,300 work for the CIA than a private? 1244 01:27:39,480 --> 01:27:43,080 That's right. That's right. And and the reason I think that 1245 01:27:43,080 --> 01:27:47,610 comes as a surprise, if it did to me at the time, I mean, I had 1246 01:27:47,820 --> 01:27:52,350 the conventional liberals view of the CIA as a right wing 1247 01:27:52,350 --> 01:27:59,250 incendiary group. And I was amazed to discover that this was 1248 01:27:59,250 --> 01:28:02,130 far from the case that they were enlightened, liberal, 1249 01:28:02,400 --> 01:28:07,200 nonpartisan, activists of the sort who characterized the 1250 01:28:07,200 --> 01:28:08,970 Kennedy administration, for instance. 1251 01:28:10,890 --> 01:28:13,950 I didn't know this, actually, this is good. 1252 01:28:15,810 --> 01:28:21,810 So I don't know what to say. I mean, to be honest with you, 1253 01:28:23,880 --> 01:28:28,620 we have to look at to see was this person sent to bring this 1254 01:28:28,620 --> 01:28:33,300 message to destabilize not only the black community, I've always 1255 01:28:33,300 --> 01:28:36,750 said on the show, the black community are just the first to 1256 01:28:36,750 --> 01:28:43,560 feel Arts is show the symptoms, what affects the greater 1257 01:28:43,560 --> 01:28:48,330 population later, you know, we don't have that cushion, right. 1258 01:28:49,200 --> 01:28:53,610 So when you see things like drug epidemics, or, you know, 1259 01:28:53,610 --> 01:28:58,140 propaganda being pushed forward, it always hits us first. 1260 01:28:59,220 --> 01:29:04,080 Whenever recessions happen, they always hit us first. But we 1261 01:29:04,080 --> 01:29:07,710 don't have that, you know, the cushion to protect us. But it 1262 01:29:07,710 --> 01:29:13,680 goes on to impact everybody. There's not tied in with the 1263 01:29:13,680 --> 01:29:14,250 elite. 1264 01:29:14,310 --> 01:29:17,520 Now, the only problem I have with this, and it's only lightly 1265 01:29:17,520 --> 01:29:21,150 touched on in her on her Wikipedia page, for good reason, 1266 01:29:21,150 --> 01:29:25,410 probably is the CIA is really not allowed to do these types of 1267 01:29:25,410 --> 01:29:28,830 things on US soil. You know, that's really not their 1268 01:29:28,830 --> 01:29:33,180 jurisdiction. So I'm just curious to know, and I'll have 1269 01:29:33,180 --> 01:29:35,160 to look into this more to see you. 1270 01:29:36,330 --> 01:29:40,800 Go ahead. When I say these things, it's just like, I think 1271 01:29:40,830 --> 01:29:45,780 you make connections with people with the movers and shakers. I'm 1272 01:29:45,780 --> 01:29:47,670 not saying it came from headquarters. 1273 01:29:48,900 --> 01:29:52,500 No, please. I understand. There's a lot of different 1274 01:29:52,860 --> 01:29:57,630 women. Oh, certain pools. Yeah. Oh, yeah. GLORIA Yeah. Go over 1275 01:29:57,630 --> 01:30:01,200 here and talk to this person. Now. Do this. kinda thing. I'm 1276 01:30:01,200 --> 01:30:04,830 not saying headquarters sit down like a memo, say Yo, we will not 1277 01:30:04,830 --> 01:30:07,920 take we got to take them down. I think it doesn't work that way. 1278 01:30:08,670 --> 01:30:11,880 Because the paper trail you don't want to work that way and 1279 01:30:12,780 --> 01:30:22,260 to say certain groups are all we always say the LI are a a group 1280 01:30:22,290 --> 01:30:26,040 of many different small factions held together by common 1281 01:30:26,130 --> 01:30:32,520 ideology. So I just want to make that clear. So now we see where 1282 01:30:34,500 --> 01:30:40,950 how we got to black women being feminist mind. I think it was an 1283 01:30:40,950 --> 01:30:43,770 agenda push down from think tanks more, you know. 1284 01:30:44,760 --> 01:30:48,420 Well, also we see we see the the foundation of this is like a 1285 01:30:48,420 --> 01:30:51,660 huge slab of cement now that you've you've you've brought 1286 01:30:52,500 --> 01:30:55,740 Alice Walker into it's like, oh, okay, whoa, no, now we see a 1287 01:30:55,740 --> 01:30:57,180 little broader in perspective. 1288 01:30:57,870 --> 01:31:01,500 Right? She's the voice she was the voice in it, or the you 1289 01:31:01,500 --> 01:31:04,950 know, the author or how you want to do it. And like I said, Color 1290 01:31:04,950 --> 01:31:09,540 Purple was the was the greatest piece of propaganda, maybe in 1291 01:31:09,540 --> 01:31:11,670 acting on black on Manchester. 1292 01:31:12,900 --> 01:31:15,450 When you saw this for the first time, or maybe the second or 1293 01:31:15,450 --> 01:31:18,120 third time, and more recently, what was your feeling? What was 1294 01:31:18,120 --> 01:31:20,190 your immediate reaction to seeing this movie? 1295 01:31:20,910 --> 01:31:27,150 What caught up? I loved it. Loved it. I mean, you can go to 1296 01:31:27,180 --> 01:31:32,310 any where large group of black people are in, say, a line and 1297 01:31:32,310 --> 01:31:36,300 someone can finish the line for you. That's how openly accepted 1298 01:31:36,360 --> 01:31:42,000 it was for I mean, it's just that when you start digging back 1299 01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:45,360 layers, and understanding who these people are, who writes 1300 01:31:45,360 --> 01:31:48,780 these things, and what their agendas are, I saw in a total 1301 01:31:48,780 --> 01:31:53,460 different light. Now might man there's not a single positive 1302 01:31:54,810 --> 01:32:00,270 man in the movie, right? Not a single one. So um, Ding ding 1303 01:32:01,830 --> 01:32:07,470 ding, ding, ding. Right. So fast forward. Now we come back from 1304 01:32:07,470 --> 01:32:13,590 the past back to the present. And we have to see is not only 1305 01:32:13,590 --> 01:32:17,460 single mothers that are miserable, but all mothers. 1306 01:32:18,750 --> 01:32:21,660 About a year ago, as I was finishing my research on 1307 01:32:21,660 --> 01:32:26,550 motherhood, I came across the feminine mystique, written by 1308 01:32:26,550 --> 01:32:32,880 Betty for Dan in 1963. The title of the first chapter is the 1309 01:32:32,880 --> 01:32:38,550 problem that has no name. As I read through the pages, I felt 1310 01:32:38,550 --> 01:32:44,880 my heart bursting. I thought to myself, every mom needs to know 1311 01:32:44,940 --> 01:32:48,840 what's in these pages. It helps give meaning to where moms were 1312 01:32:48,840 --> 01:32:53,970 back then. And where we still are today. Betty for Dan was 1313 01:32:53,970 --> 01:32:57,600 able to interview these mothers who shared with her that they 1314 01:32:57,600 --> 01:33:03,540 felt unfulfilled, alone, and ashamed to admit that they felt 1315 01:33:03,540 --> 01:33:08,640 lost in the midst of motherhood. She called this the problem that 1316 01:33:08,640 --> 01:33:13,980 has no name. The spread into suburbia with its green lawns 1317 01:33:14,010 --> 01:33:18,180 and large corner lots was isolating for moms. Their 1318 01:33:18,180 --> 01:33:22,950 worries over smallpox and polio, were replaced by depression and 1319 01:33:22,950 --> 01:33:27,750 alcoholism. Drug remedies, such as mother's little helper, 1320 01:33:28,230 --> 01:33:35,040 promised relief from boredom, unhappiness and anxiety. Sure, 1321 01:33:35,070 --> 01:33:40,980 we've come a long way since the 1950s. But the feeling of 1322 01:33:40,980 --> 01:33:45,330 loneliness and lack of fulfillment is still the same 1323 01:33:45,330 --> 01:33:45,720 today. 1324 01:33:47,910 --> 01:33:51,870 So this is Cheryl Ziggler. And she's at a TED Talks. And she 1325 01:33:51,870 --> 01:33:57,300 show you motherhood and itself. Bring brings on a form of 1326 01:33:57,330 --> 01:34:03,360 misery, loneliness, and imagine experience and Cheryl Ziggler is 1327 01:34:03,360 --> 01:34:09,990 a happily married woman and she she seems to be well off. So she 1328 01:34:09,990 --> 01:34:14,130 doesn't have the you know, the ills of financial problems. I 1329 01:34:14,130 --> 01:34:17,850 wouldn't abuse Brad perception. And she's dealing with these 1330 01:34:17,850 --> 01:34:23,370 things herself. So imagine going through that as a single mother. 1331 01:34:24,420 --> 01:34:26,580 Well, this is societal. 1332 01:34:30,870 --> 01:34:33,570 So imagine doing that by yourself. I mean, you have to 1333 01:34:33,600 --> 01:34:36,780 you have to be the breadwinner. And like I said, this is where I 1334 01:34:36,780 --> 01:34:42,630 know I'll take it for the moms. You know, imagine these things 1335 01:34:42,660 --> 01:34:45,810 that you experience having a husband you know, and having 1336 01:34:45,840 --> 01:34:49,620 money. Imagine going through that by yourself, and it's the 1337 01:34:49,830 --> 01:34:54,180 monies issue and you're the sole breadwinner, but let's listen to 1338 01:34:54,180 --> 01:34:56,580 clip 250 years 1339 01:34:56,580 --> 01:35:02,040 later, the problem that has no name is still with US, it shows 1340 01:35:02,040 --> 01:35:06,960 itself differently. But it's still the same problem. Today, 1341 01:35:07,170 --> 01:35:10,770 we have the rabbit hole of social media that shows what all 1342 01:35:10,770 --> 01:35:16,710 the other mommies are doing better than us. If we're working 1343 01:35:16,710 --> 01:35:22,110 mom, we feel guilty. And if we're a stay at home mom, we 1344 01:35:22,110 --> 01:35:27,030 feel judged. We second guess and stress over all the parenting 1345 01:35:27,030 --> 01:35:31,680 decisions that we make. And all too often, we feel like failures 1346 01:35:31,740 --> 01:35:32,610 and frauds. 1347 01:35:33,750 --> 01:35:40,020 Wow. Now imagine that being compounded by being a single 1348 01:35:40,020 --> 01:35:47,340 mother. Right? If you stay at home, you're what'd she say? If 1349 01:35:47,340 --> 01:35:52,890 you go to work, you feel guilty? And if you stay at home, feel 1350 01:35:53,670 --> 01:35:57,210 feel judged and who's judging? Is not men that are standing 1351 01:35:57,210 --> 01:35:57,930 around now? 1352 01:35:57,930 --> 01:35:59,820 It's other women? Of course, it's 1353 01:36:00,960 --> 01:36:06,270 our or, you know, and then she said about social media. Who's 1354 01:36:06,270 --> 01:36:09,690 doing this job? Oh, look her Browning's. You're saying you 1355 01:36:09,690 --> 01:36:13,200 don't make her I never. I've never heard a guy say that to 1356 01:36:13,200 --> 01:36:16,380 his wife. Oh, look at her brownies on her Instagram. Why 1357 01:36:16,380 --> 01:36:21,990 don't you make brownies like that? You know, this is this is 1358 01:36:21,990 --> 01:36:31,230 very sick, that they set these criteria. And where I'm coming 1359 01:36:31,230 --> 01:36:36,270 from is now this is gonna be a very hot take. I am not first 1360 01:36:36,270 --> 01:36:43,140 stay at home moms. But I am for a stay at home parent. I think 1361 01:36:43,170 --> 01:36:45,360 it leaves when parents should be at home. 1362 01:36:46,680 --> 01:36:51,510 Very, very unpopular stance in popular culture, very unpopular. 1363 01:36:52,140 --> 01:36:55,680 But I didn't put it on a certain gender who needs to stay at 1364 01:36:55,680 --> 01:37:01,440 home? No problem. The problem, what happened is when you opened 1365 01:37:01,440 --> 01:37:07,830 up 50% of the population into the workforce that made the 1366 01:37:07,830 --> 01:37:14,880 worker less valuable. Say that again. When you opened up 50% of 1367 01:37:14,880 --> 01:37:18,540 the population into the workforce that made the 1368 01:37:18,540 --> 01:37:23,040 workforce more worker more or less valuable? Oh, nobody looks 1369 01:37:23,040 --> 01:37:23,970 at it from an angle. 1370 01:37:24,000 --> 01:37:32,220 Right. And I, I would be remiss not to say that. Single parent, 1371 01:37:32,220 --> 01:37:37,260 dads also have issues. They're different. And in fact, maybe in 1372 01:37:37,260 --> 01:37:43,290 some cases, a single parent dad is viewed as heroic. Oh, my God, 1373 01:37:43,290 --> 01:37:46,650 look at how great he is. And it will always be judged to the 1374 01:37:46,650 --> 01:37:47,430 positive. 1375 01:37:48,660 --> 01:37:51,750 Right. Let me flesh out what I'm saying. Because I know a lot of 1376 01:37:51,750 --> 01:37:54,210 people who got whiplash and what he's what he's talking about, 1377 01:37:55,020 --> 01:38:00,690 what I'm saying is, workers should be paid enough where a 1378 01:38:00,690 --> 01:38:02,880 single income can run a household. 1379 01:38:02,910 --> 01:38:06,720 Oh, well, that would be nice. Yes, it's seems very difficult. 1380 01:38:07,410 --> 01:38:13,110 But if you look at the numbers from the time where women gain 1381 01:38:13,140 --> 01:38:16,950 the right to work, what has happened to the income? 1382 01:38:17,040 --> 01:38:19,830 Oh, it's, it's the same as 30 years ago. 1383 01:38:21,120 --> 01:38:24,570 Right. So all they did was take the same salary and split it 1384 01:38:24,600 --> 01:38:29,970 between two people. That's right. So that's what I'm 1385 01:38:29,970 --> 01:38:32,970 saying. Now, if the dad wants to stay at home, the mom wants to 1386 01:38:32,970 --> 01:38:35,850 go to work. Or if you want to be a single parent, you can make 1387 01:38:35,850 --> 01:38:40,440 enough to run your household by yourself. So that this is where 1388 01:38:40,440 --> 01:38:45,630 I'm coming to in this whole thing is this didn't benefit 1389 01:38:45,630 --> 01:38:48,330 women going to work didn't benefit the family then 1390 01:38:48,330 --> 01:38:51,300 benefiting the woman it benefited the people who made 1391 01:38:51,300 --> 01:38:55,680 decisions on the highest level. You increased your work 1392 01:38:55,680 --> 01:39:00,930 population by double. So do you get paid them half? So if you 1393 01:39:00,930 --> 01:39:05,520 don't agree with me, Jessica short, tall. She says how 1394 01:39:05,520 --> 01:39:08,100 Americans how America feels new parents 1395 01:39:08,250 --> 01:39:11,310 just put the term working mother into any Google image search 1396 01:39:11,310 --> 01:39:14,040 engine, stock photo site, they're all over the internet. 1397 01:39:14,040 --> 01:39:17,610 They're typing blog posts and news pieces. And I've become 1398 01:39:17,610 --> 01:39:21,390 kind of obsessed with them. And the lie that they tell us and 1399 01:39:21,390 --> 01:39:24,540 the comfort that they give us that when it comes to new 1400 01:39:24,540 --> 01:39:29,220 working motherhood in America, everything's fine. But it's not 1401 01:39:29,220 --> 01:39:32,580 fine. As a country, we are sending millions of women back 1402 01:39:32,580 --> 01:39:37,200 to work every year, incredibly and kind of horrifically soon 1403 01:39:37,470 --> 01:39:41,400 after they give birth. That's a moral problem. But today, I'm 1404 01:39:41,400 --> 01:39:43,410 also going to tell you why it's an economic problem. 1405 01:39:44,130 --> 01:39:47,010 Okay, well, yeah, there's there's a lot going on with the 1406 01:39:47,040 --> 01:39:52,020 with young parents today. The main thing is they're having 1407 01:39:52,020 --> 01:39:53,400 dogs instead of children. 1408 01:39:54,330 --> 01:39:56,010 Do you blame them? No. 1409 01:39:56,460 --> 01:39:59,520 And then I've gone through this program. I'm starting to think 1410 01:39:59,520 --> 01:40:02,640 no Oh, no, I can see the issues. I mean, I'm a little jaded and 1411 01:40:02,640 --> 01:40:05,070 older. That's why it's good to look at this. 1412 01:40:05,580 --> 01:40:11,130 And I, you know, I like to look at why, why are people accepting 1413 01:40:11,160 --> 01:40:16,800 the fact that I rather have a dog than a baby? And the thing 1414 01:40:16,830 --> 01:40:20,460 is, you have this, and I'm speaking in generalities here, 1415 01:40:20,460 --> 01:40:25,140 folks, so don't don't kill me. I think at certain point, humans 1416 01:40:25,140 --> 01:40:30,090 have a need to give a certain kind of love to something. 1417 01:40:31,290 --> 01:40:34,200 Something need to fill that gap. I mean, we talked about the gap 1418 01:40:34,230 --> 01:40:37,770 where the father missing, I think there also a gap in a 1419 01:40:37,770 --> 01:40:41,040 family where children are needed. Absolutely. And, and 1420 01:40:41,040 --> 01:40:45,420 what is being stuffed in that gap for baby dogs, that people? 1421 01:40:46,260 --> 01:40:50,040 Right. So it's like, everybody's agreed, right? Yeah, this is my 1422 01:40:50,190 --> 01:40:52,920 child. And okay, that's my child, too, because they don't 1423 01:40:52,920 --> 01:40:58,650 want to be honest and say, we have a gap here. But society 1424 01:40:58,830 --> 01:41:02,490 makes it so that we need both for our salaries to pay rent. 1425 01:41:03,990 --> 01:41:07,200 No, it has to I mean, the number one complaint is cost. They 1426 01:41:07,260 --> 01:41:10,920 can't afford a child, which, you know, I always put my caveats. 1427 01:41:10,920 --> 01:41:16,260 Like, you know, a lot of very poor people have children and 1428 01:41:16,260 --> 01:41:20,460 they get by but you know, it's so it's, in a way, it feels a 1429 01:41:20,460 --> 01:41:24,510 bit elitist when someone says that they're their own poor 1430 01:41:24,540 --> 01:41:29,700 personal choice, of course. But I think the financial struggle 1431 01:41:29,730 --> 01:41:32,940 is absent when you talk. You're right, when you're looking at 1432 01:41:32,940 --> 01:41:36,330 what it costs, what cost of living is, and you really need 1433 01:41:36,360 --> 01:41:40,830 both people in both partners in the household working for the 1434 01:41:41,760 --> 01:41:46,020 general masses. Yeah, it's, of course, it's much harder to 1435 01:41:46,020 --> 01:41:47,610 think about starting a family. 1436 01:41:48,450 --> 01:41:53,040 And if we look at the listen to the previous clips, everybody 1437 01:41:53,040 --> 01:41:57,810 wants the lifestyle of what the house, the picket fence, two 1438 01:41:57,810 --> 01:42:03,060 cars a trip to Orlando. Yes, sir. So and then you factor in 1439 01:42:03,060 --> 01:42:06,990 social media like Sheryl Ziglar says, and if you're not meeting 1440 01:42:06,990 --> 01:42:10,110 that standard, you feel like a failure. Yeah, see? Well, I 1441 01:42:10,110 --> 01:42:12,810 don't think our people our age are impacted by social media 1442 01:42:12,810 --> 01:42:17,040 like that. But new families and people in that range. They 1443 01:42:17,040 --> 01:42:23,130 succumb to, to the pressures. They feel like failures, because 1444 01:42:23,130 --> 01:42:25,080 they can't have it all. They can't have the vacations, they 1445 01:42:25,080 --> 01:42:28,410 can't have the house. They can't have the two cars and the baby. 1446 01:42:28,770 --> 01:42:32,610 So it's like, ah, yeah, which one? Can we replace? The baby? 1447 01:42:34,530 --> 01:42:42,780 Yeah. Wow. So, um, but Bernie Sanders has a solution. 1448 01:42:43,170 --> 01:42:47,190 Good evening. Human population growth has more than doubled in 1449 01:42:47,190 --> 01:42:51,390 the past 50 years, the planet cannot sustain this growth, I 1450 01:42:51,390 --> 01:42:55,110 realized this is a poisonous topic for politicians. But it's 1451 01:42:55,110 --> 01:42:59,850 crucial to face empowering women, and educating everyone on 1452 01:42:59,850 --> 01:43:02,790 the need to curb population growth seems a reasonable 1453 01:43:02,790 --> 01:43:06,900 campaign to enact. Would you be courageous enough to discuss 1454 01:43:06,900 --> 01:43:09,930 this issue and make it a key feature of a plan to address 1455 01:43:09,930 --> 01:43:11,100 climate catastrophe? 1456 01:43:12,390 --> 01:43:17,400 The answer is yes. And the answer has everything to do with 1457 01:43:17,400 --> 01:43:20,910 the fact that women in the United States of America, by the 1458 01:43:20,910 --> 01:43:23,340 way, have a right to control their own bodies. 1459 01:43:28,530 --> 01:43:32,460 And the Mexico City agreement, which denies American aid to 1460 01:43:32,460 --> 01:43:36,900 those organizations around the world, that are that allow women 1461 01:43:36,900 --> 01:43:41,700 to have abortions, or even get involved in birth control, to me 1462 01:43:41,700 --> 01:43:45,660 is totally absurd. So I think especially in poor countries 1463 01:43:45,660 --> 01:43:49,470 around the world, where women do not necessarily want to have 1464 01:43:49,470 --> 01:43:52,860 large numbers of babies, and where they can have the 1465 01:43:52,860 --> 01:43:55,290 opportunity through birth control to control the number of 1466 01:43:55,290 --> 01:43:58,650 kids they have something I very, very strongly support. 1467 01:43:59,009 --> 01:44:01,859 Now, that's your white privilege right there. That's the white 1468 01:44:01,859 --> 01:44:04,169 privilege guy. I'm putting it all on Bernie. 1469 01:44:05,009 --> 01:44:09,689 That's the other side of the conversation. That will be the 1470 01:44:09,689 --> 01:44:13,199 other guy and go back to the conversation between the two 1471 01:44:13,199 --> 01:44:17,699 gentlemen. That's the other solution. Don't have babies. 1472 01:44:18,209 --> 01:44:24,029 depopulation Yeah. So I know I got out of order but I wanted to 1473 01:44:24,029 --> 01:44:28,409 set that clip up to set the final two clips. So they say 1474 01:44:28,499 --> 01:44:31,649 this is this is what's sick about it. They put all the 1475 01:44:31,649 --> 01:44:37,919 pressure not on corporations to provide you know, meaningful 1476 01:44:37,919 --> 01:44:43,199 salaries to people or you know, or create a social you know, a 1477 01:44:45,629 --> 01:44:49,079 safety net, you know, to help not even a safety net but 1478 01:44:49,079 --> 01:44:52,259 certain standards or corporations or whatever to pay 1479 01:44:52,259 --> 01:44:57,359 people a meaningful salary. The reason why I say that is we all 1480 01:44:57,359 --> 01:45:00,149 heard the stories yet dad was the only one working he could 1481 01:45:00,149 --> 01:45:02,369 afford, you know, to pay for the kids to go to college, you know, 1482 01:45:02,369 --> 01:45:06,029 saying have a retirement pension, and you know, as to go 1483 01:45:06,029 --> 01:45:08,909 on vacation. Where's that at now? Oh, no, 1484 01:45:09,540 --> 01:45:14,610 what you're getting at I think is population control, ie 1485 01:45:17,340 --> 01:45:24,150 normalization of abortion. Let's call it choice is being abused 1486 01:45:24,150 --> 01:45:27,600 by elites to make sure we keep our worker pool cheap and 1487 01:45:27,600 --> 01:45:28,620 readily available. 1488 01:45:30,000 --> 01:45:33,510 Yep, that's the whole point. And it's the same mean but just from 1489 01:45:33,510 --> 01:45:37,920 two sides of the coin. And it's that conversation between two 1490 01:45:37,920 --> 01:45:41,880 Hobnob errs to say, hey, I have a solution. You know, let's just 1491 01:45:41,880 --> 01:45:45,000 make it rustle rough on him. You know that they'll be begging 1492 01:45:45,030 --> 01:45:50,910 y'all for depopulation. So that's where we're at. So scared 1493 01:45:50,910 --> 01:45:55,320 to wrap this up, hi, American, how America fails parents to 1494 01:45:55,560 --> 01:45:58,350 this working mother, all working mothers and all of their babies 1495 01:45:58,350 --> 01:46:03,210 are fine. There's nothing to see here. And anyway, women have 1496 01:46:03,210 --> 01:46:07,410 made a choice. So none of it's even our problem. I want to 1497 01:46:07,410 --> 01:46:10,890 break this choice thing down into two parts. The first choice 1498 01:46:10,890 --> 01:46:16,320 says that women have chosen to work. So that's not true. Today 1499 01:46:16,320 --> 01:46:22,320 in America, women make up 47% of the workforce. And in 40% of 1500 01:46:22,320 --> 01:46:26,040 American households, a woman is the sole or primary breadwinner 1501 01:46:26,760 --> 01:46:30,330 are paid work is a part a huge part of the engine of this 1502 01:46:30,330 --> 01:46:34,290 economy. And it is essential for the engines of our families. On 1503 01:46:34,290 --> 01:46:37,170 a national level, our paid work is not optional. 1504 01:46:38,970 --> 01:46:46,950 Yeah. So here we are, on one hand depopulation, on the other 1505 01:46:46,950 --> 01:46:51,990 hand, are you choose to have a child so suffer? That's a hell 1506 01:46:51,990 --> 01:46:56,970 of a choice to give a woman? Yes. And once again, I go back 1507 01:46:56,970 --> 01:46:59,550 to compound that with doing it by yourself. 1508 01:47:00,150 --> 01:47:03,660 Yeah, and we don't make it much easier by positioning the 1509 01:47:03,660 --> 01:47:06,720 American and I'm saying this is all about America, because 1510 01:47:06,720 --> 01:47:09,180 that's really the only the only thing we think we can speak to 1511 01:47:09,210 --> 01:47:13,740 intelligently. And then add to that, that oh, by the way, that 1512 01:47:13,740 --> 01:47:16,830 guy, he's, he's worthless. Just look at him look on television. 1513 01:47:16,860 --> 01:47:19,590 He's dumb. He's a goof. He's a goofball. He ain't really going 1514 01:47:19,590 --> 01:47:20,100 to help you. 1515 01:47:22,320 --> 01:47:30,360 Yeah. So um, if I bring all these points up to say, we're in 1516 01:47:30,360 --> 01:47:31,590 a sick place. 1517 01:47:33,690 --> 01:47:38,970 Well, the way I read it, the only way we get out of it is 1518 01:47:38,970 --> 01:47:42,930 actually with the help of women. Women are going to have to 1519 01:47:42,930 --> 01:47:46,230 realize what's going on. They are without a doubt, what you've 1520 01:47:46,230 --> 01:47:51,120 shown here today is a lot of manipulation and control. And 1521 01:47:51,120 --> 01:47:54,360 although you hear the truth and the real feelings coming 1522 01:47:54,360 --> 01:47:59,850 through, at the at the upper conscious level, it's gone. It's 1523 01:48:00,180 --> 01:48:03,090 just like, Okay, this is what I got to do. Here's these. And 1524 01:48:03,090 --> 01:48:06,360 you're right, social media advertising plays right into all 1525 01:48:06,360 --> 01:48:06,690 of that. 1526 01:48:07,410 --> 01:48:12,120 Hmm. And the other thing is that we haven't discussed is, when 1527 01:48:12,120 --> 01:48:16,470 you split a home up, you create twice the need, yeah, to 1528 01:48:16,470 --> 01:48:22,440 electricity bills, to gas bills to rent or mortgages to 1529 01:48:22,470 --> 01:48:27,750 everything. So it's a sick, it's a sick, sick place we're at. But 1530 01:48:27,780 --> 01:48:31,380 this final clip. Now, Bernie Sanders and the lady said that 1531 01:48:31,380 --> 01:48:35,940 we need to control populations. But Miss Jessica shorthaul 1532 01:48:35,970 --> 01:48:39,690 disagree. She said, we need the population to survive. Let's 1533 01:48:39,690 --> 01:48:40,680 listen to what she says. 1534 01:48:41,040 --> 01:48:43,290 Choice number two says that women are choosing to have 1535 01:48:43,290 --> 01:48:46,200 babies. So women alone should bear the consequences of those 1536 01:48:46,200 --> 01:48:50,970 choices. You know, that's one of those things that when you hear 1537 01:48:50,970 --> 01:48:53,970 it in passing can sound correct. I mean, I didn't make you have a 1538 01:48:53,970 --> 01:48:59,070 baby. I certainly wasn't there when that happened. But that 1539 01:48:59,070 --> 01:49:03,300 stance ignores the fundamental truth, which is that our 1540 01:49:03,300 --> 01:49:08,790 procreation on a national scale is not optional. The babies that 1541 01:49:08,820 --> 01:49:12,780 women many of them working women are having today. will one day 1542 01:49:12,780 --> 01:49:16,800 fill our workforce, protect our shores, make up our tax base. 1543 01:49:17,250 --> 01:49:21,660 Our procreation on a national scale is not optional. That's 1544 01:49:21,660 --> 01:49:22,230 correct. 1545 01:49:24,510 --> 01:49:29,670 But depopulation is the answer somebody's lying. You can't have 1546 01:49:29,670 --> 01:49:33,210 it both ways. And I believe to believe Jessica more than Eileen 1547 01:49:33,210 --> 01:49:36,570 to believe Bernie Sanders is a depopulation crowd. We need 1548 01:49:36,570 --> 01:49:37,050 people 1549 01:49:38,760 --> 01:49:42,810 well, of course, throughout this entire what almost two hours, 1550 01:49:42,960 --> 01:49:46,620 I've, what's planned parenthood is just running through my 1551 01:49:46,620 --> 01:49:49,200 brain, you know, where do they fit in? And we haven't really 1552 01:49:49,200 --> 01:49:54,720 brought it up. We don't have to necessarily, but but the thank 1553 01:49:54,720 --> 01:49:57,930 you for doing this because the conversation, the conversation 1554 01:49:58,650 --> 01:50:03,480 that the nation has Having is about and you know, of course 1555 01:50:03,480 --> 01:50:06,570 with Cavanaugh and all this and Trump in general, it's all Roe 1556 01:50:06,570 --> 01:50:09,690 v. Wade. And it's all about choice choice choice, but you 1557 01:50:09,690 --> 01:50:16,590 never hear the conversation that goes deeper. And that looks at 1558 01:50:16,800 --> 01:50:20,700 what the real effects are, are the real necessities or the real 1559 01:50:20,700 --> 01:50:25,680 need? And why is your choice talking to women? Why is your 1560 01:50:25,680 --> 01:50:29,040 choice so incredibly important to be looked at from multiple 1561 01:50:29,040 --> 01:50:32,490 angles instead of just here's what I want? Here's what I don't 1562 01:50:32,490 --> 01:50:36,660 want right down to what Jessica short all said there with and of 1563 01:50:36,660 --> 01:50:41,520 course, if we're not making 2.3 average children per couple, 1564 01:50:42,180 --> 01:50:45,390 eventually you have no country left. That is of course what 1565 01:50:45,390 --> 01:50:49,890 happens and we could go on for another hour about what 1566 01:50:49,890 --> 01:50:52,770 immigration and certainly illegal immigration does to the 1567 01:50:52,770 --> 01:50:56,580 equation, etc, etc. It's thanks Mo. I don't think I can sleep 1568 01:50:56,580 --> 01:50:57,270 tonight now. 1569 01:50:59,400 --> 01:51:00,210 That's my aim. 1570 01:51:02,040 --> 01:51:08,490 Well, a good job, my friend. I'm looking forward to where we're 1571 01:51:08,490 --> 01:51:10,620 gonna go next week with all this. 1572 01:51:12,420 --> 01:51:15,060 I'll go with the stories take me Yeah, I 1573 01:51:15,060 --> 01:51:17,340 know you are. You're a great researcher mode. This is 1574 01:51:17,340 --> 01:51:21,120 fantastic. What an enjoyable, enjoyable show for i i liked it. 1575 01:51:22,770 --> 01:51:25,710 And, and of course, we disclaim that, you know, we didn't 1576 01:51:25,710 --> 01:51:29,970 consult any women for the show. And that's, that's on us. 1577 01:51:31,290 --> 01:51:33,240 But we look forward to their feedback. We 1578 01:51:32,000 --> 01:51:33,320 sure do. MoeFactz.com is where you can always find the latest 1579 01:51:33,320 --> 01:51:35,540 episode where you can also send your feedback and importantly 1580 01:51:35,540 --> 01:51:41,570 you can support the program if you enjoyed the past hour and 52 1581 01:51:41,570 --> 01:51:48,860 minutes. what's that worth to you? You know, what else do you 1582 01:51:50,660 --> 01:51:54,290 spend your money on for two hours? That's how we would like 1583 01:51:54,290 --> 01:51:59,300 to be rewarded if you're so inclined. MoeFactz.com. And of 1584 01:51:59,300 --> 01:52:03,110 course when I when I saw this song as the the Outro Song I 1585 01:52:03,110 --> 01:52:07,310 knew I knew kind of what we're going to talk about and this is 1586 01:52:07,310 --> 01:52:12,770 a weird one this song because the date that's mentioned right 1587 01:52:12,770 --> 01:52:15,440 off the top is the third of September which is my birthday, 1588 01:52:15,740 --> 01:52:18,740 which takes me into a whole other head spin about the song 1589 01:52:19,670 --> 01:52:24,140 wow, I know it's trippy right hey Moe Thank you very much man. 1590 01:52:24,290 --> 01:52:26,000 This was fantastic had a good time. 1591 01:52:26,990 --> 01:52:29,390 All right, same here Adam and as I always tell everybody pay 1592 01:52:29,390 --> 01:52:32,120 attention to everything and the truth will reveal itself. 1593 01:52:32,240 --> 01:52:36,170 That's right Moe Factz with Adam curry. This is episode six. We 1594 01:52:36,170 --> 01:52:41,180 will return most likely next Monday. Again MoeFactz.com is 1595 01:52:41,180 --> 01:52:44,030 where you can find out all the information in support the show 1596 01:52:44,510 --> 01:52:49,190 until next time everybody I'm Adam curry for me and Moe Factz 1597 01:52:49,670 --> 01:52:50,330 take it easy.